lovelybri Posted May 31, 2016 Posted May 31, 2016 My son dad and i been haveing problems for a few months now the past few months. He went out of town to visit his friend.he met a girl out there guess they was texting he went to her house that same day and never went back to his friend house now his friend is mad that he left with this girl. Then i guess his friends was having problems at home with his girl friend ...so my ex was talk n to one of his lady friend ...she had asked him why is he with this girl ..he say that his friend was having problems at home so she was the first person ..that she dont mean anything rhat it Convenient For him that he going to go home ...so he ends up coming home we was good for 4days then i found that girl number in his phone ...it start an armament real bad ..so i seen that he Was Disconnected he didn't want to talk or do anything i notice he was texting a lot on the phone ..then the next day after the argument ..he was still acting the same ...he told me that he Desensitized that he fills lost and he need time to find him self ...he need time to figure what he want to do ...so we had plans to go out already from days ago ..i asked if we still going .as i jump in the shower ..when i got out i notice his stuff was gone and he was too ..he text me that the truck at the greyhound to pick it up.he never told me he was leaving. He left his son here told him he not going i havent talk to him since for 3 days already...now am just wondering is this just some time apart or is it really over ...he deleted my pictures off his facebook and hasn't try to contact me ..i just want to understand what really going on ...
basil67 Posted May 31, 2016 Posted May 31, 2016 Lovelybri, I'm sorry you're in this situation. However, your post is really hard to understand. Punctuation would help a lot. The upshot seems to be that you've been having problems for a while and he's finally left. It does sound rather permanent, but you know him better than us - does he have a history of leaving and returning? What problems were you having before he went away? How old are you both? How long have you been together? Are you both working? If you can give us background (punctuated!) we will be able to give you more solid advice.
Author lovelybri Posted June 1, 2016 Author Posted June 1, 2016 We been together for 2years now,we have a 9 month old baby. Yes he done this befor but he didnt take as long as this time. We been haveing problems about his older son he dont listen and he can be DisrespectFull i would let him no, he would talk to his son about it but his son dont seem to care what any one has to say lol...so now he blaming me that he act like that cause he was never like that befor! So he packed up his clothes and left ..he did this befor but came back after 2 days! He met this girl on face book went to her house and stayed there he was trying to come back but he ram out of money in reno! So he wanted me to help him out ! I said no, i was mad that he was with this girl !!! So he was out there for 2 weeks , came home 4days pass we was okay !! Till i seen her number in the phone!! It started a argument the next day that when he pack up and left to reno again i dont know if he tryed to contact me cuz i did block him off facebook and i turned the phone off
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