VeveCakes Posted June 7, 2016 Posted June 7, 2016 Dude, she didn't even have the decency to say goodbye and just left? Why didn't you take my advice where I said don't text her until she texts you? Because you knew she wasn't going to...and think about that. You should be with someone who is EAGER to talk to you, not going to shove you aside and not even have the decency to reply or say goodbye. Don't be a doormat. Forget this one and move on. 2
Author swazzzz Posted June 7, 2016 Author Posted June 7, 2016 No, the kisses were not French, they were goodnight kisses so 10 seconds or so with a hint of a tongue. It was definitely not passionate. Her behavior is more like a early 20s female than an early 30s female. I thought she would be clear about things and if she didn't like me, wok,d tell me on my face and throw subtle hints at me. Anyway, the brunch wasn't really a date thing since she had 5 of her friends there with her. And yes she definitely left without telling me. But why would a girl friend zone a guy after just 2 dates where we both had a great time? Her actions are confusing and maybe the kisses led me to think that we had a bit more substance to our date than a regular first or second date. It has now been almost 24 hours since I texted her with no reply.
VeveCakes Posted June 7, 2016 Posted June 7, 2016 She may have had a great time but maybe didn't feel chemistry. Maybe she went back to an ex. Maybe she's gay. Maybe she met other guys or was dating other guys. It doesn't really matter. Read the actions, especially in her leaving and the texting. Let this one go, lots more out there. 1
Author swazzzz Posted June 7, 2016 Author Posted June 7, 2016 Thanks everyone. Money wasted but experience gained.....quick question: what if I text her on Thursday, asking if she wants to grab dinner over the weekend? Pretend like everything is alright? If she responds, maybe I can talk to her....if she doesn't, well it's over then. Good or bad idea?
planb1973 Posted June 7, 2016 Posted June 7, 2016 NO! NO! AND NO! Let this one go. You stand nothing to gain by texting her, except maybe wasting more money. If she was interested you would know. She is not! 1
joseb Posted June 7, 2016 Posted June 7, 2016 (edited) Thanks everyone. Money wasted but experience gained.....quick question: what if I text her on Thursday, asking if she wants to grab dinner over the weekend? Pretend like everything is alright? If she responds, maybe I can talk to her....if she doesn't, well it's over then. Good or bad idea? Don't be an idiot. How many more signs do you need that she is not interested. Doesn't thank you for dinner or reply, brings friends along to a 'date', ignores you. Leaves without a word. Seriously, read the (obvious) signs. Stop all contact. There is a small chance that if you do that, she will reach out. Unless she offers to take you out or come around for Netflix and chill I wouldn't be replying Edited June 7, 2016 by joseb
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