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Well I'll try sum this up best I could .Few years back was friends with Mandy but I was dating another girl at the time so for respect to my ex cut contact with Mandy and went cold turkey heh .Well that rs went sour and pretty much my life took a tumble for the worst .Id say it was pretty dark time in my life .Ill be honest I tried to reach out to Mandy but she had new bf so I backed off .I then found out later on maybe year later (fb snooping I'll be honest )She was engaged to this guy .Ill admit it bugged me I had bigger issues .Well since then dated few times but nothing serious even as recent as 2 weeks ago.I check fb which tbh just hardly do and noticed message from her with her number .Ill be honest I sat on number till yesterday where I sent a text just saying hello .She replied next morning and we been texting here and there .I called cause tbh not big on texting and we had I'd say pretty good convo .I said well let me know how's weekend looking maybe we can grab a bite she said sure I'd love that :)

 

 

Sorry I rambled just is there a thing as enough time has passed to be ok contacting again .Im not bitter like I said had a ton going on in my past so can't blame her for that .Maybe things happen for a reason ?

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Now she's sending me pictures saying thought you might like this :)

 

Hmm Things are def getting odd lol

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So what's the question?

 

If Mandy is now single and wants to meet up and you've crushed on her for a while I don't see a problem here.

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So what's the question?

 

If Mandy is now single and wants to meet up and you've crushed on her for a while I don't see a problem here.

I guess im just pretty shy but I did ask her out for Friday /Saturday she was going to let me know how her weekend was looking .I didn't take it as a flake after all she's busy so not expecting her just drop everything for me .I swear it's funny I'm pushing 30 and still nervous about women/dating lol .
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Now she's vanished lol I really need to stop biting when a girl throws a hook my way .Back to trying to focus on myself although I'll admit I'm bit upset

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