NNDD77 Posted May 30, 2016 Posted May 30, 2016 (edited) So basically the story goes like this: I studied in Europe for some time and met this amazing girl, we connected on the first day we met and everything was awesome. We started going out and spending the whole day and night together but as it was already written I had to go back to my home country in the other side of the world at the end of the Summer, just there we started falling in love and she traveled to the city where I would take my plane. We were so into each other that we said we would wait six months or even a year until I could go back, we texted and skyped everyday since then. I worked really hard in order to be with her again and six months later I did. We saw each other again and everything was perfect for a month until she said she didn't feel the same anymore. Saying that because I was away too long or because she really knew me well just because of texting things were starting to get weird. I told her I understood and that it was ok to break up because it was unfair that I would always have to go back, and then after a month I asked if we could be friends and she said no and threw me out of her life, I may have been persistent because I didn't want to lose her in my life and she just told me that it wasn't a normal behavior and told me to stop. I really loved her and was willing to work as hard as it took in order to be with her I've never felt this way about anyone before, and I understand things couldn't work out for several reasons but the fact that I don't have her in my life anymore is killing me. Edited May 30, 2016 by NNDD77
chatter Posted June 20, 2016 Posted June 20, 2016 I'm sorry! Long distance is not for everyone and it sounds like you either can go visit her and if you stay for a while and she changes her mind then you stay for good. Its a choice either you walk away or you keep fighting. Since youve already made the choice to walk away its best to let time work its magic. Refuse to think about her or only think of the bad and in no time your heart will be stitched up and wanting to love again even though that seems impossible now.
gaig Posted June 20, 2016 Posted June 20, 2016 You have to let her alone before she panics more.. I was in a quite similar situation with my young ex gf, that ended about a month ago. The LDR (well, started after 2 year relationship) killed her feelings, but she never really acknowledged it was due to the distance (young as I said). I was also persistent which got her to the point of just disappearing for good. Not everybody is strong enough for LDR man
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