kaynichole Posted May 30, 2016 Posted May 30, 2016 (edited) I have known this guy for years, we've been friends but nothing more because he was relocating to CA and I'm in FL. Recently he moved to FL, on the other coast, which is only about 6 hours from me. He decided to strike up conversation with me and we immediately hit it off as more than friends. At the beginning of May he asked me to come see him, so we made plans to meet halfway June 4th. However, right after we made plans, we went from talking every single day, almost non-stop, to not speaking for two weeks, at all. I figured he had lost interest and that our plans were void. A few days ago I receive a message from him asking about our plans to meet up. I told him I'd cancelled the trip because we hadn't been speaking; I told him I made two attempts to talk to you and you completely ignored it so I didn't pursue anymore planning. He apologized and said that he had a lot going on with trying to get custody arrangements figured out with his daughter and also that he had started working a second job. He assured me that he was still very much interested. We went back to our normal routine of talking non-stop even though I was a bit cautious about it this time. We made plans to set the trip back in motion. The issue is that now he's not replying to me AGAIN. Last I heard from him was May 27th when we said goodnight. Didn't contact him at all on the 28th or talk to him at all yesterday either until night time when I sent a message on Facebook saying "Hey good looking, hope your day was well. Goodnight" Still no reply as of now but he read it and has been active on Facebook posting things all day today. I want to state how intensely this guy has been pursuing me; up until the two weeks of non communication, it was constant compliments, statements about how much he liked me, how I came into his life at the right time and how he felt I was the perfect girl. And while I understand words are only words until they're backed up with action, and that I don't know how much intention was behind these statements, I am confused as to why he would continue on with it if it's only a game (which it feels like). Two days ago he told me "I'm not going to see anyone else, or even speak to other women. I won't be sleeping around either." I asked "Why?" He said "Are you kidding me? I am only interested in one person and that's you. I can't get you off my mind." Should I just give this up? I don't understand the hot and cold game. Everything I have read online says to run in the other direction when it comes to men like this. Edited May 30, 2016 by kaynichole
smackie9 Posted May 30, 2016 Posted May 30, 2016 It only takes 10 seconds to send a text.....Yes actions speak louder than words.....I would move on if I were you. 1
smackie9 Posted May 30, 2016 Posted May 30, 2016 BTW when they blow hot/cold that usually means they are seeing someone else, putting you on the back burner. 1
JarodOner Posted May 30, 2016 Posted May 30, 2016 It only takes 10 seconds to send a text.....Yes actions speak louder than words.....I would move on if I were you. Totally agree. A simple text is literally all it takes to keep someone in the loop. I'd find someone else. 1
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