Stephen8 Posted May 30, 2016 Posted May 30, 2016 I have broken up with my ex girlfriend over a month now and have texted her 2 days ago saying that I think it's time we talked. She has not reied to me and has not even looked at the message. I broke up with her because while initially she was the perfect girlfriend , she began to show her ugly side. She was a very needy girl who made sure everything revolves around her, I did everything for her, I did all her college work as she was not a native English speaker and even dropped out of university because of our first breakup as it was in the centre of my exams. I have done so much for her , I question myself now if she has ever loved me.While Appearing confident , she was not and would constantly stress over little things and of course I was there to support her throughout our one year relationship. We broke up over her crazy control needs and I texted a mean message a day later. Now it's been a month and I really miss her, even though I think I got manipulated, I can't imagine life without the good times that we had. Should I ever expect a reply or simply move on and recover from this painful loss? 1
basil67 Posted May 30, 2016 Posted May 30, 2016 Yes, you need to move on. Her staying out of contact with you is best for both of you. And from her point of view: you dumped her and sent her a mean message the next day. Why would you think that she'd be prepared to speak with you? Surely you realise that she would cut you off for that. 1
Blanco Posted May 30, 2016 Posted May 30, 2016 Sounds like you won't hear from her again unless she needs more homework done for her. This is for the best, OP. 2
Satu Posted May 30, 2016 Posted May 30, 2016 I have broken up with my ex girlfriend over a month now and have texted her 2 days ago saying that I think it's time we talked. She has not reied to me and has not even looked at the message. *I broke up with her because while initially she was the perfect girlfriend , she began to show her ugly side. She was a very needy girl who made sure everything revolves around her, I did everything for her, I did all her college work as she was not a native English speaker and even dropped out of university because of our first breakup as it was in the centre of my exams. I have done so much for her , I question myself now if she has ever loved me.While Appearing confident , she was not and would constantly stress over little things and of course I was there to support her throughout our one year relationship. We broke up over her crazy control needs and I texted a mean message a day later. Now it's been a month and I really miss her, even though I think I got manipulated, I can't imagine life without the good times that we had. Should I ever expect a reply or simply move on and recover from this painful loss? *Did you expect her 'ugly side' to have evaporated after that month? If you want more ugly, talk to her again. If not, don't talk to her. 1
Audacious Posted May 30, 2016 Posted May 30, 2016 you can build a new life with someone who is better , if you're seeing her '"ugly side " then you're way better off without someone like that in your life , better be hurt for a while than for the rest of your life . you made a decision to leave her , stick to your decision , own it and move on , take a couple of months off the dating scene , delete everything related to her , block her on social media , and you'll be surprised at how fast you''ll move on , 1
d0nnivain Posted May 30, 2016 Posted May 30, 2016 , I did everything for her, I did all her college work as she was not a native English speaker and even dropped out of university because of our first breakup as it was in the centre of my exams. I question myself now if she has ever loved me. Should I ever expect a reply or simply move on and recover from this painful loss? What? After a semester's worth of work & non refundable tuition, you dropped out of school over a break up?! Honey, you have much bigger problems then the end of this relationship. You need to learn to make better decisions. I'm sure she loved the fact that you did her course work for her. No you should not expect a reply from her. There is nothing to talk about. The things you did not like about her have not magically vanished in a month. I'm sure she's moved on to a new sucker who will revolve the world around her. Plus now she probably lost respect for you when you threw in the towel on your own future by dropping out of school because you had a broken heart. Let her be. See what you can do to resurrect your academic career. That has to be the most important thing. 2
Author Stephen8 Posted May 30, 2016 Author Posted May 30, 2016 (edited) Thanks guys , hearing all of you telling me that it's not worth my time helps me to realise that it's just a painful stage in my life. I suppose the feeling of intimacy will unfortunately pass. Thanks to my amazing lecturers I'm allowed to repeat my exams in autum. Makes me think that one should never throw themselves at a women with the hopes that they have the same passion for the relationship without first seeing their input. I just wish she would listen to me and understand that I don't want to get back with her, just tell her that I really enjoyed the time that we had But I think anger and hate blinds her. I really do wish her the best, makes it even more awkward that we work together in one company. Oh well gues it's time to go back to the drawing board and stop dating girls with the face of an angel and the agenda of a politician. Edited May 30, 2016 by Stephen8
d0nnivain Posted May 30, 2016 Posted May 30, 2016 I'm glad to hear that you didn't waste a whole semester & you will be allowed to take your exams. Keep you eye on the ball: it's the diploma not a relationship.
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