Klein1715 Posted May 29, 2016 Posted May 29, 2016 So I was going out with this girl for 9 months, felt really attracted to her and I can say I loved and still do. In general we had a great and happy relationship. Just this passed month we've been arguing more and more and things seemed to be getting downhill. We decided to break things off mutually (I felt she had doubts about us and felt I had to let go). She then said the day we broke up that "we were incompatible". We've been broken up for 2 weeks now, I kept no contact for healing purposes cause I'll admit, it hurt me. Last Friday she sent me a playful text of an inside joke we had, I replied but nothing too serious. Although I want her back I didn't pursue any further conversation. Today is my birthday and she sent me a text to wish me happy birthday (ok cool, no biggy) but she also said in the message "that she was thinking a lot about me". So I kindly replied "thanks for the though! I hope things are going well" and that was it. She replied with a message that (which I think did not need a reply) said I hope you enjoy your day. My question is, should I tell her that I think about her too? Or should I leave it be and take it as a kind birthday wish from her part? Any thoughts are greatly appreciated
fixing Posted May 29, 2016 Posted May 29, 2016 I would leave it. Don't reply. If she is serious about making it up to you then she needs to do more then just a simple 'I've been thinking about you'. Stay No Contact imo and see if she actually makes a serious effort in letting you know she wants to reconcile. It is your birthday, so naturally she would be thinking about you on this date... 1
Daxter325 Posted June 2, 2016 Posted June 2, 2016 Stay no contact, if she's seriously "thinking about you" she's gonna make a better effort than a half assed "thinking about you" In return I would say nothing 1
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