Steve2016 Posted May 29, 2016 Posted May 29, 2016 I was discussing love at a health group...and a woman said when you have a crush on someone ( obsessive thinking of that person).....IT IS NOT THAT PERSON.. it is something else going on. What did she mean?? What is going on???
Fruitee Posted May 29, 2016 Posted May 29, 2016 I guess she meant that obsessing over someone is self defense mechanism not being available for some attainable. Or maybe you should ask her what she meant by that?
basil67 Posted May 29, 2016 Posted May 29, 2016 A crush is the feeling we get when all those feelgood hormones and adrenaline kick in and we can't stop thinking about a new person. I have no idea what your friend is talking about. Perhaps you should ask her.
Buddhist Posted May 29, 2016 Posted May 29, 2016 I was discussing love at a health group...and a woman said when you have a crush on someone ( obsessive thinking of that person).....IT IS NOT THAT PERSON.. it is something else going on. What did she mean?? What is going on??? It means, that person is appearing to you as a fantasy about you finding wholeness. You tend to imagine that person is the answer to all your problems. If you can just be with them then everything will be alright. But you soon discover that person is not who you imagined them to be and of course the relationship is pretty down the toilet after that. 1
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