My ex boyfriend just sent me a photo of him having sex with another woman..

[Yello]

We just broke up yesterday. He thought I was cheating on him...But I was not in fact......He said he wants to break up with me and later on that night he sent me a photo of him having sex with another woman.....I still love him so much...I do not want to lose him this way....what am I supposed to do?

[preraph]

Well, I think you can stop loving him now, for starters. What a jerk. And no regard for this woman he slept with. For all we know, he did it secretly and illegally. I can't believe you're still trying to find a way to get him back. I'd be forwarding it to his mom and dad, if not the police and his employer.

[Poppyolive]

Oh dear. Why on earth would you want to be with someone so cutting, callous and calculated? This is not someone of solid boyfriend material. He's a little boy playing games.

 

How old are you both?

How long have you been together?

Where did these cheating allegations come from?

[tayriley]

this is disgusting. likely the reason he was accusing you of cheating was because he himself was cheating. and cheaters are always suspicious of others and think that everyone else is behaving like them.

 

stop all contact with this person. he truly is not worth your time. only a true narcissistic a-shole would pull the sh-t he did here. how can you still love him after he did something so awful??

 

trust me, after you come out of the initial grieving post-breakup process, you will look back on this guy and think 'thank god he dumped me and showed me how terrible of a person he is so that i never get back together with him.'

[Buddhist]

We just broke up yesterday. He thought I was cheating on him...But I was not in fact......He said he wants to break up with me and later on that night he sent me a photo of him having sex with another woman.....I still love him so much...I do not want to lose him this way....what am I supposed to do?

 

Realise this is over. Regardless of whether or not you are innocent, he just sent you a pic of himself shagging someone else. That shows some hideous level of petty and immature going on right there. Do you really want this guy back?

[Gaeta]

So, you break up and 'later' he sends you a picture having sex with someone else. How do you think he found that 'someone else' so quickly? Sounds like he already had something going or he was keeping someone else on the back burner.

 

What he did is the equivalent of spitting in your face. It's abuse and emotional cruelty. Forget about him.

[Daisy-oliviaWentcher]

ewwwww that is so disgusting!

 

 

Block him anyway possible and don't look back

 

Vile and despicable!

 

Only sociopaths and narcissists do something creepy and disgusting such as this!

 

Yuck!

[phineas]

EWWW!

Block.

[kendahke]

We just broke up yesterday. He thought I was cheating on him...But I was not in fact......He said he wants to break up with me and later on that night he sent me a photo of him having sex with another woman.....I still love him so much...I do not want to lose him this way....what am I supposed to do?

 

Girl, you already lost him this way.

 

You want to go in behind sloppy seconds? You want him bringing that home to you?

 

He wants to break up with you and he made damb sure you got the message. GAther up your self esteem and leave him alone. Any guy who would go as far as to send you pictures of him having sex with another women is a man who has nothing for your feelings, and he has no respect for either you or himself--what self respecting person even does this mess?

 

Get a grip on yourself and your dignity. What you're supposed to do is to lock him out of your life. Be about that business with a quickness.

[seamos]

Just as tayriley said; he most likely was cheating already and that's why he accused you of it.

 

I had a relationship w/ a woman who acted this way, accusing me of looking at other women, of cheating, etc... while it was the farthest thing from my mind.

 

It turned out she was doing all of this herself. So get rid of him, don't waste your time.

 

You can find someone who doesn't just think of their own feelings.

[juniorrocha]

Oh wow, that's so damn cruel. Get out of it, right now. Run away and don't ever look back.

[ForeverAlone2016]

I am so sorry you going through all this pain.

 

You deserve much better than that. His actions show that he is immature, unstable and unsettled. You will be better off without him.

 

Hold your head up high, put on a pretty dress, nice heels and go out with your girlfriends.