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She's playing hard to get, I think


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There's this really pretty girl, she told my friend I was really cute and my friend told me, I started talking to her more often but she's been playing really hard to get, she tells my friend I'm chill and all that so its not my personality or anything, but she's playing hard to get and I honestly don't know what to do, I haven't really made any moves though, but should I keep talking to her but make more moves or should I just give it up? People tell me id be able to get her and stuff but like I'm not used to people playing hard to get, so I'm kind of stuck.

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how old are you? i ask because you sound kind of young.

 

just find ways to spend alone time with her. if there are no ways (ie, you have no classes or extra-curricular activities), then just straight up ask her out.

 

if she says no and you think it's her playing more games (like waiting for you to keep asking), then just let this one go- you dont want to be with someone who plays like that. if she is a well-adjusted person that likes you, she will say yes to you.

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Ask her out for a date, don't wait to long, otherwise she thinks you have no courage. If she says no, let her go. Don't chase. Hard to get doesn't work for girls in the long run.

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There's this really pretty girl, she told my friend I was really cute and my friend told me, I started talking to her more often but she's been playing really hard to get, she tells my friend I'm chill and all that so its not my personality or anything, but she's playing hard to get and I honestly don't know what to do, I haven't really made any moves though, but should I keep talking to her but make more moves or should I just give it up? People tell me id be able to get her and stuff but like I'm not used to people playing hard to get, so I'm kind of stuck.

 

I'm not really following you here.

 

What do you mean by make a move? If you mean should you ask her to go on a date with you, by all means, yes and sooner rather than later.

 

If you mean try to get her to have sex with you without you so much as spending time with her, no I don't think that is a good idea for her.

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Don't do anything let her make the move and see what she does? Don't work so hard into this. You never figure them out they have their own ideas about what they want?

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Take it from a former ball-busting-play-hard-to-get Catholic school girl...ASK HER OUT!

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Don't do anything let her make the move and see what she does? Don't work so hard into this. You never figure them out they have their own ideas about what they want?

 

lol, this would never work. girls like the guy to take initiative.

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She wants a confident guy to come right up to her and hit on her hard, make her blush and her head spin.

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