ex bf texted after a month and half nc, but nothing about the relationship

[ydb_xo]

hello everyone.

I am just curious if the text had any meaning or no meaning at all

my ex of seven years texted me yesterday after a month and a half of nc.

it wasnt a hey how are you i miss you or anything about the relationship.

we had a family plan under his name while being in a relationship, when we broke up i gave him the phone, didnt keep the number just got my own line.

he just texted that my old co worker has been trying to reach me (on my old number)about some job, even included the number. and at the end he just said, just passing along the message.

 

at first i didnt think anything of it, to me he was simply just passing the message. but when i talked to my friends, they said "oh thats how they start"

im trying not to think anything of it.. he had done something similar in the past the first time we broke up for a month, when i was doing nc he texted me things about the phone, our old shared accounts yada yada yada and nothing about the relationship no hi how are you either. my friends told me not to text him back and hes just trying to find a way to contact me. after getting back together he admitted that he sent those texts because he was trying to contact me again but just trying to find excuses to start a convo and got sad when i didnt reply or i gave him short answers like yes no ok.

 

so what I am trying to say is, what is he doing now? is he trying to do the same thing as the first time we broke up or is he just trying to be a good person and passing along the message.

 

thank you for reading.

[urmysong]

Ignore it...it's nothing...continue NC

[juniorrocha]

It's been 7 days since I broke up with my ex, and before that we once broke up for 2 days too. During these 2 days she said she would constantly stare at her phone and try to find more about me, because she was worried about my health and stuff. So that led me to think that she is/was doing the same thing now, but you know what? IT. DOESN'T. MATTERS. The more I read about break ups here in LoveShack and NC, the more I'm certain that you must just ignore everything. It doesn't matters if he wants to get back with you, if he wants to start a conversation, or if what he wants is to communicate something... it simply doesn't matters. As long as you're sure of your decision, don't leave any hopes up, keep working on moving on and everything will be fine!