laundrydoer Posted May 26, 2016 Posted May 26, 2016 There's this irl ive been going on dates with,great girl seemed very into me We were always communicating but then aftr she graduated college last week it just died. I mean we still talk but its not as much She has started a new job after she graduated so maybe thats part of the reason? i dont know,it just feels weird not hearing all the time Should i be concerned? i dont wanna seem clingy lol i know her new job is stressful and shes always on her feet thoughts?
kendahke Posted May 26, 2016 Posted May 26, 2016 There's this irl ive been going on dates with,great girl seemed very into me We were always communicating but then aftr she graduated college last week it just died. I mean we still talk but its not as much She has started a new job after she graduated so maybe thats part of the reason? i dont know,it just feels weird not hearing all the time Should i be concerned? i dont wanna seem clingy lol i know her new job is stressful and shes always on her feet thoughts? She's adjusting to the demands of her new job. Give her about 2 weeks to get acclimated to her new job then call her and set up a date. You will know then if she's still as interested in you as she was before starting the new job.
Mrin Posted May 26, 2016 Posted May 26, 2016 She's adjusting to the demands of her new job. Give her about 2 weeks to get acclimated to her new job then call her and set up a date. You will know then if she's still as interested in you as she was before starting the new job. ^^^^ quoted for truth
JAbba2gEther Posted May 27, 2016 Posted May 27, 2016 We were always communicating but then aftr she graduated college last week it just died.... Should i be concerned? i dont wanna seem clingy... You seem to have found a girl that you regard highly. You talked a lot with her and things seemed like it was going well. But then, some new adjustments had to be made by this girl. A new job brings about stress just like any changes. Relating to new people, tasks that have to be learned and practiced, and new expectations placed on the new employee. I am very certain that, if this girl got as much out of the friendship you shared as you did, she will want to continue contact with you. Only, it may be on different terms as it was previously. At college, she may have had more time to do things she wanted to do apart from study; and she had been there for a while so everything was so ... second nature. No adjustments required. She may have had time to ring you more, to talk, and to go out on dates. As the stress of the job decreases, which will inevitably occur as rehearsal makes tasks second nature, the time you crave may come a little freer. But until then, my friend, as long as she continues to communicate with you, it may be just a matter of you adjusting to the situation and not, as you said yourself, getting ‘clingy’. All the best as you work out this new situation in your life.
Jiggs Posted May 30, 2016 Posted May 30, 2016 It could mean that she is busy or that her priorities have changed. She may not be as emotionally invested in the relationship as you are. The only way to know for sure is to talk to her about it. Try not to look needy or desperate. Be the best, most authentic version of yourself.
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