nancyha Posted May 26, 2016 Posted May 26, 2016 I met this guy on Tinder, we went to have lunch and then we had sex (very quick, I know), which was also good. After we cuddled for a while, I didn’t feel he was distancing from me. He said that if I didn’t have plans the next day we should meet. We both had plans so he walked me out and kissed me good-bye. 5 minutes later he sent me a message saying “I loved our afternoon”. For the next two days he sent me good morning messages, we held small conversations and at one point he stopped answering. So I looked for him 2 days later, just said hi, we started talking again and I asked him if he had plans for the weekend, he said he was working on Saturday but Sunday free, so I told him maybe we could do something on Sunday and he just replied yes! Then I said I had a lunch but that we could meet in the afternoon.. and then he stopped replying again! I won’t look for him now, I know that.. but what do you think? Not interested? A one night thing? I can deal with it, I just think it’s confusing. Any insight would be highly appreciated!
Larryville Posted May 26, 2016 Posted May 26, 2016 I met this guy on Tinder, we went to have lunch and then we had sex Facepalm: “a gesture in which the palm of one's hand is brought to one's face, as an expression of disbelief, shame, or exasperation.”
Dork Vader Posted May 26, 2016 Posted May 26, 2016 Tinder is notorious for 1 night stands and flings. That said, the guy clearly is not overly interested. He's just looking for sex. If he was really interested he would have set up plans and not just said a yes. If he does not set solid plans before Saturday, then make other plans for Sunday. If he pops up sunday asking what's going on just tell him We did not have solid plans so I made other plans. When I first started my girl friend, I literally asked her on another date at the end of our First date. I really had a good time and really wanted to see her again. So I kept moving the ball..
Author nancyha Posted May 26, 2016 Author Posted May 26, 2016 Yeah, that's what I sort of knew but was a little in denial and hoping maybee something was a little different. Thank you for your advice!
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