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She Said 'I Love You' On Saturday, Then Dumped Me On Monday....

HereWeGoAgain1980

By HereWeGoAgain1980
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It might have been her but it might not have been. You said you messaged her to stay NC so now you have to do that. Don't ask if it was her, don't check on her social media or anything. The breakup is still fresh and you need to put distance between yourselves. If she really wanted to get back in contact with you, she would have. If she wanted to get back together, she wouldn't play games. Anything that she does/says apart from "I want to give it another go" is just playing with your head and leaving bread crumbs.

 

I know that it hurts right now and I know you probably wish it was her but you need to give yourself some time to heal before jumping back in a relationship anyway. You can do this, it does get better!

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It doesn't matter if it was or not.

 

I'm curious, why do you care if it was? Do you genuinely mean what you told her? "So we can move on". And be honest with yourself here. I don't blame you if you're not, because I told everybody I was for awhile, when deep down I knew I wasn't, so I DID care if she called or not. Wasnt until not too long ago I stopped caring. It takes a lot to get to that point.

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It doesn't matter if it was or not.

 

I'm curious, why do you care if it was? Do you genuinely mean what you told her? "So we can move on". And be honest with yourself here. I don't blame you if you're not, because I told everybody I was for awhile, when deep down I knew I wasn't, so I DID care if she called or not. Wasnt until not too long ago I stopped caring. It takes a lot to get to that point.

 

Of course I didn't mean it, but a girl who's dumped you isn't going to miss you and chase you unless she thinks you're really gone!

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My ex did the same thing..it's an immature thing some people do. If they broke your heart you don't have a choice but go NC.

Try not to look too much into it. Even knowing it was your ex, it won't reallly help you to move on as it will give you false hope she would do it again.

 

The more you keep your mind away from her, the sooner you will get over this Trust me on that.

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One thing I've learned from relationships and breakups: Don't say or do something unless you mean it.

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