Struggling with no contact..

[Lawislife]

Me and my ex girfriend of 2 years broke up we were both 20 when we started dating I broke up with her because she was talking other men behind my back recently my old buddy contacted me (her friend) said she said that she stuffed up and she's waiting for my call and she's sorry but she won't call me unless I call her like what the hell she cheated on me and is expecting my call who does she think she is QUEENB? I've been in no contacting for over 2 weeks and I was doing okay until I heard my mate telling me she's expecting a call from me?

 

What can I do to move on fast and not look back?

[LD1990]

Continue NC and tell people you don't want to hear about her at all. Moving on takes time, but it goes much faster the less you know and hear about your ex.

[privategal]

Id say your already doing it.

2 weeks is really good and every week that goes by gets easier.

She has no right speaking to your friends or to expect you to reach out.

She just wants to get rid of guilt so if you contact her she gets to think she isnt that bad of a person.

I hope you have her blocked as Id expect more games.

Your friends need to know their loyalty shuld be to you but if they are mutual friends of hers too and are neutral and willing to speak to both of you, let them know you are not wishing to hear ANY etails and that you will not speak to her or about her or reply to any of her messages nor respond to any games from her or guilt trips.

How arrogant of her.

Keep going. Now that your blinders are off as to what kind of person she is and that she would stoop that low...you have nothing more to talk about and your onlyhealing from what it did to your ego and self esteem to be disrespected that way but she is no loss..no prize. She will probably cheat on the next guy too. Karma.

[mamabear32018]

I'm so sorry about your break up. If moving on is your goal, then it sounds like you are doing just that, with no contact.