kittyxo Posted May 23, 2016 Posted May 23, 2016 We have been talking for a week now and have been chatting over the phone and through text. He told me he really likes me and he really likes my personality and stuff. Yesterday we talked the entire day through text and phone, but today, nothing! I haven't heard from him at all. I don't want to message him because I want him to pursue me. Im not sure if this is a good or bad thing that I'm doing, but it seems to be what every woman out there is telling me to do. He also tries to make me jealous, but I never really buy into it. If I mention a guy or anything, he gets really jealous. I don't get it. He said we'd hang out soon, but hasn't initiated anything yet.. Not sure if he's playing games.. 1
d0nnivain Posted May 23, 2016 Posted May 23, 2016 Yesterday was Sunday, a weekend. Today is Monday, a weekday. Perhaps he is just working. 1
Larryville Posted May 23, 2016 Posted May 23, 2016 Not sure if he's playing games.. Ladies, all dudes will play games and jack around until they are given a good reason or motive to focus exclusively on you. Also when you see behavior like this: He also tries to make me jealous, but I never really buy into it. If I mention a guy or anything, he gets really jealous. Dude is a mental case leave him alone. He is acting like an idiot and you don’t even know him, so meeting him is going to make the behavior improve? Ladies, please you guys post this stuff with dudes acting like idiots and you wonder what to do about them, or why you should do? C’mon 1
candie13 Posted May 23, 2016 Posted May 23, 2016 Interested men act interested. Don't make contact and don't be clingy, that's all I can advise you. See how he reacts later. I don't know if this Guy is a player, perhaps just not that interested. Take time to observe how he makes contact and when and mirror that. Low contact = low interest. On and off - low interest as well. Basically, if à Guy is interested, You know it. If You start to pick up inconsistency cues & start feeling restless - most prob he has other women on The go. Absolutely mirror his behaviour, don't make him q priority unless he makes you feel You are his. Easy peasy! Cheers 1
smackie9 Posted May 23, 2016 Posted May 23, 2016 You both are playing stupid games....why are any of you talking about other guys/girls if there is interest in possible dating. IMO I wouldn't bother with someone who acts jealous or tries to make me jealous....immaturity you can live without. As for not messaging a guy is dumb advice. If you like someone you "reciprocate" messages, affection, compliments, etc. Stop playing games. 1
Scorpio Chick Posted May 23, 2016 Posted May 23, 2016 KittyXO, have you heard of Matthew Hussey? He's got a YouTube channel. He is GREAT. Really great. Please check him out. I would agree with what someone else suggested as far as not hearing from him...it is Monday, so he's likely busy. Also, the trying to make you jealous - that isn't a great sign to be displaying that when this is not even a relationship yet. Doesn't mean he's a horrible person, but it does mean you should pay attention and have your guard up. But I can't recommend Matthew Hussey strong enough. He has excellent advice. Good luck, sweetie! 1
SilverAccount Posted May 24, 2016 Posted May 24, 2016 Some people can be genuinely caught up, stop over thinking and take each day as it comes. 1
Satu Posted May 24, 2016 Posted May 24, 2016 You're both playing games and trying to manipulate each other. "I don't want to message him/her, because I want him/her to pursue me." What utter nonsense. 1
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