My boyfriend has bizarre ejaculation: Are there less chances of conception?

[Gwyn]

Okay, my boyfriend is over 55 and the first few times he climaxed inside me I remember not smelling the typical sperm odor or even feeling liquid inside me, but when I did oral sex on him a few times it did come out with that 'smell'.

When he was using condoms so I wasn't sure if the ejaculation came out right away.

This last time he didn't use a condom so I asked him straight out why nothing came out and he had to 'fiddl'e with his penis a while until something came out. He wants to have a child with me, but I'm kind of wondering if it will even be possilbe if his sperm doesn't even empty right away every time. Is this something that goes on with older men? What is it? Should I be concerned?

 

Any input would be extermely helpful. Thanks

[dawn duval]

I just wanted to bump this thread because the phrase "bizarre ejaculation" is very eye-catching.

 

Totally don't mean to make fun btw, just think you have a cool choice of words.

 

So anyone know the answer?

[Treasa]

Well, out of curiosity, how old are YOU? If you're close to his age, that could cause a lot of problems. If you're still in your 30's, probably not so much. There are a lot of methods to overcome, er, weaker swimmers. Putting a pillow under your hips so your pelvis is tilted up may help, as will making sure that you're not overweight or underweight (BMI of 20 to 30 is good), have sex frequently on the days you ovulate, exercise, make sure neither of you are suffering from depression, make sure your boyfriend wears boxers, and don't douche.

 

Getting pregnant isn't all that easy (which makes me roll my eyes at teenage girls who get pregnant after "accidentally" having sex without protection once), so don't give up.

[XNemesisX]

I don't even want to think about a 55 year old man's sperm and cum smell...my dad is that age LOL

 

Umm...I'm guessing it IS something to do with his age. He's an old fart and men over 40 are just not the same as they used to be...

 

Treasa has some good suggestions.

[Gwyn]

Hey Guys you really have a good sense of humour, but I am SERIOUS here.

Okay I am in my thirties and he is in his late 50s. I just wondered if anybody knows what that means if the ejaculation comes out 'late' sometimes. Is this a medical condition he should see a doctor for?

[froggytroat]

Well, he could be faking it.

[tiki]

Is it part of the normal impotent thing that men go through? I mean geez, he is 55. If I were you, I'd do some research on impotence.

[alphamale]

Originally posted by XNemesisX

Umm...I'm guessing it IS something to do with his age. He's an old fart and men over 40 are just not the same as they used to be...

Hmmm XNX...I'm 40 and I can still sometimes squirt 2 to 3 feet if I'm very excited.

[tiki]

My H can squirt his own face and even over his shoulder onto the wall. So damn hott.

[moimeme]

Not every guy squirts.

[tiki]

Not every guy smells of a foul odor either.

[Treasa]

You know, there are times (usually right before lunch, as luck would have it) when I go back and read posts and wish I hadn't.

 

This is one of those times.

[tiki]

Maybe his main vein has some pinchage or a blockage. He should just see a doc.

[whichwayisup]

Just passin' on by here... Just kidding...

 

OK, maybe he has enough sperm but the actual liquid isn't very much. If you jerk him off, does anything cum out? Don't be shy, ask him questions, suggest him going to see the doc for a sperm count.

[Anonymous]

An enlarged prostate--increasingly common as men age--is a often the cause of that kind of symptom. If he isn't already familiar with the state of his prostate (it should probably be examined regularly by now) you should suggest that he see his GP or a uroligist just to check things out. It's usually a benign problem, though it can also indicate more serious problems that should be professionally evaluated. I'm not sure about its impact on fertility but I'm sure his personal doctor would be able to offer more applicable answers than most people here.

 

He might also just be a little worn out from ejaculating more frequently than his system can ready itself if the two of you (or his lonesome) are especially "active".

[Treasa]

By the way, my post wasn't written with any humor. All of my suggestions were serious.

[smile95]

I would just like to thank everyone on here for giving me my first smile and laugh of the day. Not making fun, but reading all the posts cracked me up.

 

I am sorry, I have no answer to the actaul question......my favorite line was "he had to fiddle with it"