xforeverlove22 Posted May 21, 2016 Posted May 21, 2016 So this guy asked me out on a date (earlier this week) and he was super nice and Friednly. I wasn't in a good mood that day and was being a complete bitch. I feel super bad about it. Should I apologize to him or just let it slide...?
ChocolateRain Posted May 21, 2016 Posted May 21, 2016 there is never anything wrong with apologizing ... 4
Author xforeverlove22 Posted May 21, 2016 Author Posted May 21, 2016 Is saying "Hey, i hope everything is going well!" an appropriate message?
Author xforeverlove22 Posted May 21, 2016 Author Posted May 21, 2016 there is never anything wrong with apologizing ... Is saying "Hey, i hope everything is going well!" an appropriate message?
GemmaUK Posted May 21, 2016 Posted May 21, 2016 Is saying "Hey, i hope everything is going well!" an appropriate message? No, not if you were a complete bitch, you should apologise. What did you do? 2
smackie9 Posted May 21, 2016 Posted May 21, 2016 Is saying "Hey, i hope everything is going well!" an appropriate message? No, this would be passive/aggressive behavior. It shows you are not owning it, so you would be dismissed as being cray cray. 6
xforeverlove21 Posted May 21, 2016 Posted May 21, 2016 No, this would be passive/aggressive behavior. It shows you are not owning it, so you would be dismissed as being cray cray. Should I just have a casual convo..? I remember when my ex felt guilt thats what he did and I actually kind of liked it/ didn't mind
ExpatInItaly Posted May 21, 2016 Posted May 21, 2016 What did you do or say on this date? And no, sending a "Hope everything is well!" message is not sufficient. If you want to apologize, own up to your behaviour and actually say sorry. It would be best done in person, but if not possible, in a phone call. Not a text message. 3
Cherryz Posted May 21, 2016 Posted May 21, 2016 sure apologize to him. and learn from this. next time just be honest and tell him you having a bad day you can talk to him right now. 2
todreaminblue Posted May 21, 2016 Posted May 21, 2016 be honest and just apologize....the reason that you feel like you should and you are asking advice about it....is because you already know you need to..... the worst thing that can happen when you apologize is that it wont be accepted..and thats not on you then...thats a choice he will make.....i have found that is rare people dont accept apologies....if they are heartfelt..so do the right thing guided by your own feelings....and apologize...best wishes....deb... 1
Author xforeverlove22 Posted May 21, 2016 Author Posted May 21, 2016 be honest and just apologize....the reason that you feel like you should and you are asking advice about it....is because you already know you need to..... the worst thing that can happen when you apologize is that it wont be accepted..and thats not on you then...thats a choice he will make.....i have found that is rare people dont accept apologies....if they are heartfelt..so do the right thing guided by your own feelings....and apologize...best wishes....deb... So he asked me out on a date, I accepted and went. He's a nice guy and all but he just wasn't my type and I wasn't looking for anything too serious either. I was social and all but I may have shown him that I wasn't interested via my body language/ actions. I felt really really bad/ guilty because I know what it's like to be in his shoes. That's why I wanted to apologize or like have a convo just to be nice
smackie9 Posted May 21, 2016 Posted May 21, 2016 Why bother???? Obviously the date sucked, you knew it, he knew it. It wasn't a love connection, oh well he has probably written it off as "not interested" and have moved on to the next.
Dis Posted May 22, 2016 Posted May 22, 2016 Hun you really cant behave this way when your first dating someone. You def scared him off! I wouldnt pursue things with a guy that acted like an ass**** to me after the first date. He probably thinks your alittle nuts. Let your hopes for this one go and mind your P's and Q's with the next guy.
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