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Dating after a breakup..Does this guy like me??


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Hello everyone!

 

Wow, its been a long 6 months since my breakup. Anyone who already doesn't follow no contact, it definitely works.

 

I have been getting out there and really focusing on myself and dating. I have learned to start putting myself before others when needed. While I still have a lot of more work to do, I feel as if I'm slowly getting there.

 

I recently met a guy who I feel as if I have a connection with. I met him online, and while I'm keeping my guard up because I don't want to get hurt, I find myself opening up to him daily. We kind of have the same sort of breakup story so it kind of helps as well.

 

Just a question though, he has been calling me almost every night to talk to me. He asked me last night if I wanted to hang out sometime and I said yes.

 

So I wanted to know, although he hasn't explicitly said it, does he like me?

 

Also, what can I do to not seem desperate or needy in this situation.. i have a bad habit of coming off like that sometimes..

 

Thank you!!

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A man never invests his time in someone he has no interest in. Of course he likes you, well I would say more like he has an interest in you. You really can't know whether you like someone enough to pursue unless you see each other face to face. Stop over thinking things and just meet him without expectations. Just enjoy the experience, assess later what you might think about him.

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So you haven't actually "met" him at all then?

How can he like you if you have not even met

Sure, he can be interested in meeting you, but at the risk of sounding like a broken record on here, there is nothing until you meet. Nothing.

So just meet up already enough with the online and phone chatting.

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