TheBathWater Posted May 21, 2016 Posted May 21, 2016 There is someone I had a sexual relationship with a year and a half ago. We're not on bad terms, she and I just never felt we were made for anything serious. Anyway, I have a connection to attending a sex party but I need to bring a partner with me because no single males are allowed. I know she is interested in trying group sex so I thought of her instantly. I was thinking of asking her out for a drink and seeing if she wants to go with me. Has anyone else tried talking with someone about this before? How did you bring it up? How do you not sound like an ass? It seems like there is a lot of taboo and judgment around this sort of thing, and no one wants to feel cheap.
ExpatInItaly Posted May 21, 2016 Posted May 21, 2016 There is someone I had a sexual relationship with a year and a half ago. We're not on bad terms, she and I just never felt we were made for anything serious. Anyway, I have a connection to attending a sex party but I need to bring a partner with me because no single males are allowed. I know she is interested in trying group sex so I thought of her instantly. I was thinking of asking her out for a drink and seeing if she wants to go with me. Has anyone else tried talking with someone about this before? How did you bring it up? How do you not sound like an ass? It seems like there is a lot of taboo and judgment around this sort of thing, and no one wants to feel cheap. A couple things first: Are you still in somewhat regular contact with her? Do you know if she is still single? 2
elaine567 Posted May 21, 2016 Posted May 21, 2016 There is someone I had a sexual relationship with a year and a half ago. We're not on bad terms, she and I just never felt we were made for anything serious. Anyway, I have a connection to attending a sex party but I need to bring a partner with me because no single males are allowed. I know she is interested in trying group sex so I thought of her instantly. I was thinking of asking her out for a drink and seeing if she wants to go with me. Has anyone else tried talking with someone about this before? How did you bring it up? How do you not sound like an ass? It seems like there is a lot of taboo and judgment around this sort of thing, and no one wants to feel cheap. Well it isn't like you are just asking some random girl or a friend, this girl has already told you of her interest in group sex so she will either jump at the chance or say no. As you have already discussed this subject with her, it shouldn't offend her or shock her. I would ask her out for a drink and just bring it up. Be honest. If you sort of pretend you are interested in dating her, she may very well be offended, if your true motives are then exposed later.
jen1447 Posted May 21, 2016 Posted May 21, 2016 ^ Yeah, just say "hey I have a line on this sex party but they only allow couples. Wanna go?"
preraph Posted May 21, 2016 Posted May 21, 2016 Text: Hey, I got invited to a sex party. Wanna go? Thing is her next question is going to be how good looking the guys are, and you're not going to know the answer to that. But probably "not very."
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