Sunberry Posted May 21, 2016 Posted May 21, 2016 (edited) Hello, didn't know where to properly put this, but feel free to move it if it's in the wrong category. I met this guy while at my uni, and long story short he was very, very sweet. We've hung out a lot in the same circle for a couple of months. In any case, I really wanted to sleep with someone who I knew would treat me well (I've had a string of just terrrible men. Last one just complained during..). So I asked him. He said he has been sort of interested in me but didn't want to impose because I was his friend's friend. But he agreed. He treated me way better than I thought he would. After wards, I got...emotional if you will. I told him that I think I wanted to talk to him more. As we both agreed we didn't know each other enough to "like each other". I asked him if he was put off because I told him as any guy would be in that situation, he told me "Not at all". So, we talked for a few days through text almost back to back. This is where I get confused (sort of). I went on vacation and found out he lived where I was vacationing. He said he'd love to see me, but due to when I was coming he couldn't because of work. I won't see him for at least a month and a half and he knows that. I asked if he liked talking to me (I was trying to see if he wanted to still "talk" as we won't see each other for a while). He goes, "I do, but I don't like talking all the time". I didn't know how to respond, except to not. I got busy after that text and now our texts are sporadic. In any case, I texted him recently about a movie we both wanted to see and haven't heard from him from a couple of days.. I have no idea what I'm doing. But I feel like I may be clingy and just stop talking to him. I don't know what to do. Any advice would be lovely. Thank you Edited May 21, 2016 by Sunberry clicked enter way too soon
ilovemefirst Posted May 21, 2016 Posted May 21, 2016 I tell this to everyone, but take a step back and focus on you.He will naturally gravitate towards you if he truly likes you. He seems a bit scared that you two are getting close and maybe some space will help.
ExpatInItaly Posted May 21, 2016 Posted May 21, 2016 Sorry girl, but he's not very interested. Just let this one go. 1
scorpiogirl Posted May 21, 2016 Posted May 21, 2016 You proposed a physical relationship. He accepted. Then you changed the rules on him. That's on you. Don't back away in the hope that he's going to come to you. Back away because your arrangement has been completed. 1
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