Ekko Posted May 20, 2016 Posted May 20, 2016 I've been stuck in this rut for quite sometime and it'd be greatly appreciated if someone could help me out. I'll keep this short and concise as I can. Back in my senior year of high school I dates a girl who I would honestly say was my "first love". I cared a lot for her as she did for me (balh blah blah). Things went south a we broke up after a year. She later went on and dated a friend of mine. I really didn't care at the time but if I'm honest with myself, it did hurt me a bit. For the next year or two we dated or other people but still kept tabs on each other. I did want to get back together with her, but she would dance around the idea but still keep me in the hook. I decided to just leave the situation because I would miss out on better opportunities. She would reach out to me randomly at times with months in between asking how I was doing or sending me a something we used to do. It sucks cause it pulls me right back down. It's been 6 years since the breakup and it still goes on. Last night I received a text from her and it was just a photo of her and I from our prom. It's been 10 months since I last heard from her and I get this. Like what in the world? I bothers me because he intentions are hazy. This girl was special to me and it's difficult for me to move on completely without here dropping the hook. I do have here removed from all social media but I still have her number. I ignored it nonetheless. I just wish she would just come out a say what she wants. What should I do?
preraph Posted May 21, 2016 Posted May 21, 2016 Well, you certainly have the right to call her up and say, _____, Why are you sending me prom photos?" I'm glad you've blocked her. You have a right to move on. She is dangling that hook over and over. Maybe she just likes to see if you still like her at all, or maybe she gets sentimental. But if it's messing with your head, then do just block and ignore. If there's any chance you want to reconcile, call her, take the bait and ask her whys he's still sending you stuff and whether she's trying to reunite or something. Just ask her. But if she's been a pest you can't get rid of, then don't respond because it will just encourage her. Good luck.
Author Ekko Posted May 21, 2016 Author Posted May 21, 2016 Well, you certainly have the right to call her up and say, _____, Why are you sending me prom photos?" I'm glad you've blocked her. You have a right to move on. She is dangling that hook over and over. Maybe she just likes to see if you still like her at all, or maybe she gets sentimental. But if it's messing with your head, then do just block and ignore. If there's any chance you want to reconcile, call her, take the bait and ask her whys he's still sending you stuff and whether she's trying to reunite or something. Just ask her. But if she's been a pest you can't get rid of, then don't respond because it will just encourage her. Good luck. Thank you for the reply! Sorry about the typos lol. Typing this up on my phone wasn't a good idea. You're completely right that I have the right to ask her why she sent me the photo. I also like what you said in the bold. My curiosity outweighs my lingering desire to get back together with her. I think I'm just going to brush this one off. It's just selfish if her intentions is to see if I still like her.
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