SixxChick Posted May 20, 2016 Posted May 20, 2016 "Some people can only 'love you' as much as they can use you. Their 'loyalty' stops when the benefits end." ____________________________________________ It stings like hell. But it will never happen again. Ever. I'm trying to change the lesson from being jaded, to putting myself first. Seems like a selfish way to approach any new relationship, but I guess I'll have to balance being guarded vs. allowing new people into my life. The older you get, the circle gets smaller. 1
carhill Posted May 20, 2016 Posted May 20, 2016 Give what one chooses to give, freely and without expectation, and no one is without an ejection seat. Push the button to fire the seat, as appropriate, with confidence and without expectation. 1
preraph Posted May 20, 2016 Posted May 20, 2016 SixxChick, I'm sorry to hear. Not everyone will do that though. But the ones who will just keep on doing it, I promise you. It's hard to see what someone is like when they're still trying to impress you, but they eventually reveal themselves if you're not too blind in love to see when they do, as many of us are. Put it behind you. Good luck. 2
bluefeather Posted May 21, 2016 Posted May 21, 2016 I'm trying to change the lesson from being jaded, to putting myself first. Seems like a selfish way to approach any new relationship, but I guess I'll have to balance being guarded vs. allowing new people into my life. The older you get, the circle gets smaller. You still sound really jaded :/ Good people are out there. 1
Author SixxChick Posted May 21, 2016 Author Posted May 21, 2016 You still sound really jaded I am. Betrayal is a hard thing to deal with. But I am working on it, thanks to a lot of insight on this website. 1
privategal Posted May 21, 2016 Posted May 21, 2016 I dont think there is any way to hurt someone more than using and betraying them. It is the worst heartbreak but I pray as time goes on the memory and pain will fade and life will bring you peace and healing. Its ok for now to go through the hurt and greif , anger is part of healing. You will heal. There is a special place in hell for those who put someones heart and love and care through a meat grinder. Living well and allowing karma to handle it are the best revenge. Block all paths of communication and allow your thoughts of him to become more distant each day. Its hard to see yourself healing and gauge the progress but you are...its slow but sure and takes time. Try not to dwell to much...limit time spent thinking of it all as it doesnt help. Trust that the universe will show him just how much of a punk he is some day. 1
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