Been out of the game for too long.

[DaToscana]

Hey everyone. I've never posted anything like this on any forum, so i'll try my best to make it clear.

 

First off, I'm 22 years old, and haven't been in a relationship for 6 years. Not that i didn't have the chance, but i just wanted be alone and have fun with friends. In the past i have been very shy, and have turned down many girls just because i was afraid to just say yes (I know it was crazy).

 

I've changed quite a lot since i started bodybuilding, i gained a lot of confidence but i think my standars highrocketed and didn't find anyone attractive enough.

 

Since i got back from Peru 7 months ago (went there for vacations). I realized that i wanted someone in my life. I decided to completely erase my standards and just find the right girl for me.

 

I'm an extremely humble guy, but i get told a lot by my friends and family that i'm attractive, and i honestly get a lot of glances and smiles from girls.

 

I recently got into college (i know it's late, but i wasn't sure what i wanted to do). And just recently met this girl (literally last week). I went straight to her and said hi, she smiled back at me and told me her name, she then proceeded to ask mine. After a little chit-chat i had to go so it ended right there.

 

To my surprise after a couple days, she joined one of my classes, she then proceeded to sit next to me, and smiled at me. I was surprised and honestly happy, because it would make my job easier.

 

I realized that during class, she looks at me a lot, and when i look at her she smiles, but she was afraid to start a conversation.

So after a couple days, i told myself that if i didn't talk to her, she probably wasn't gonna do it. She started asking me a lot of questions about myself, my life and what i loved to do. At a certain point i realized that i was talking too much about myself and told her that i was sorry to do that, but she told me that she liked listening to what i had to say.

 

Anyways, by the end of the conversation, i asked her if she had Facebook, she said yes. So i literally said ''Would you like me to add you?'' and she replied YES, but DO IT RIGHT NOW (literally during classes). So i did what she asked me. She then started looking at my pictures and since i got some pics without a t-shirt she started saying out loud ''Ohh, he likes to show his body i see''

Not so long after that classes ended, so we left on a good note.

 

I honestly thought this was gonna be a home run pretty fast. But the next day (today). We had classes, and we had an exam. After i finished mine and she finished hers. I realized that she wasn't looking at me at all, like she normally does. Maybe a couple of glances but i didn't see her interested in talking to me, like i normally feel. So i said hi, she replied to me but she was kinda on another note, i felt like she wasn't really there.

I said ''how was the exam?''

she said ''It was alright, how about you?''

''Pretty easy, i think i nailed it'' i replied.

I was turning back to my desk, when she asked giggling ''Did you go to the gym yesterday?''

''Yeah... why you ask that?'' i replied laughing.

''Haha, for nothing"" she said.

 

Since i honestly felt like she was thinking about something else, i didn't continue the conversation, and left classes afterwards.

 

My question is do you guys think she's into me? Is it possible for her to have lost interest overnight? Or am i just thinking about this too much for nothing.

 

I'm not experience enough so i tend to take everything as a good or bad sign, when sometimes it has nothing to do with me.

 

PS: Do girls like guys taking pictures of their body? Or they think that's disrespecftul? i'm honestly thinking about taking down all the half-naked pictures i got in my Facebook.

Edited May 20, 2016 by DaToscana

[Kaleard]

It seems to me like your Facebook pictures were a turn off for her seeing as she made joking comments about how fit you are twice. Don't get me wrong, I think women like a fit/muscular guy but they don't like a guy that seems to be full of himself with a bunch of shirtless selfies all over social media. Since you have a nice body I'd recommend a couple shirtless pics in there but make them fun like the focus of the picture isn't about you but about the good time you're having with friends. I have a feeling the pictures made you come across as conceited.

[JewelD]

I think you're overthinking things. You guys don't really know each other yet. I don't think you should change your pictures just because one girl might not like them. If you like them and that's how you want to express yourself, leave them up. You might attract a girl who also enjoys body building.