maddiewilson Posted May 20, 2016 Posted May 20, 2016 I’ve been hanging out w/this guy for around 5 months now. 2 months in, he stopped talking to me out of nowhere, and came back a month later. I acted pretty chill/ aloof. Everything was going well, until he disappeared again 2 weeks ago. He has ADHD and an ED, and is probably insecure. When we were together, he would act as though he liked and cared for me. I probably acted more aloof throughout the whole thing. Occasionally when we would hang out, he would leave his stuff at my place. Should I reach out to him?
mikeylo Posted May 20, 2016 Posted May 20, 2016 He is more off than on. Let it go. Once you reach out, he will go off again !
d0nnivain Posted May 20, 2016 Posted May 20, 2016 Reach out to him if you like but understand based upon the pattern of behavior he has exhibited to date, he is not reliable. If you count on him, you will get hurt.
preraph Posted May 20, 2016 Posted May 20, 2016 My feeling is confessing to him given his ED will only put more pressure on him, and you know how that backfires with ED problems. So I wouldn't do that. He is probably on his own schedule for life.
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