itstoni Posted May 19, 2016 Posted May 19, 2016 There's been this HB8 that captured my attention. I have no problem approaching her but the issue I do have is that I only shee her at the gym. I've never been one to game women at the gym since I'm busy working out ontop of that every guy is already eyeballing her. Which of course women know.I never gave this much thought nor is it an issue. To the women- How do you feel about a guy approaching you at the gym? I would assume that It's 'creepy' to you, but of course that could easily be avoided with perfect execution. By approaching genuinely,casually with a tip opener or of some sort. To the men- How successful have you been in this situation ? Good seccess rate if approach? Would you suggest catching her outside the building or waitng till you happen to run into each other ? Spare the hate.
Emilia Posted May 19, 2016 Posted May 19, 2016 I think this will come down to how serious she is about the place. I was thinking about this about a week ago, in my regular gym that has a great weight room there is a lovely looking guy who I know fancies me. I know nothing about him and it doesn't matter because it's much more important to me that I can have my Sunday mornings at the squat rack (he is there Sunday mornings too) than to try anything. I would struggle to find a similarly well equipped place. If she is just into the usual girlie stuff then try to catch her eye a couple of times and see what happens. Going on the elliptical or whatever can be done anywhere, I don't think most people are precious about that. In theory I wouldn't be bothered about being approached in a gym that didn't matter to me. 1
Imajerk17 Posted May 19, 2016 Posted May 19, 2016 (edited) "HB8".... Are you a PUA? Yes, I have done this successfully. As @Emilia said. Keep in mind that she may view the gym as her sanctuary and you are likely to run into her again there. You want to start a conversation without making it (too) obvious you are hitting on her. --If she seems serious about her workout, then compliment her on her form (e.g, good depth on her squat) making a point to be as non-sleazy about it as possible. Also, be mindful about not keeping her from her next set! --If she just seems to be blowing off steam on the ellipticals then casually catching her on the way out asking "how was your workout", without making it look like you were waiting for her, is pretty good. --If she seems to be avoiding eye-contact altogether then respect that. Some other time. If she doesn't seem interested in talking to you, respect that as well. Let her and yourself get back to working out. If she is interested, this is enough to start a good conversation, if she isn't, as long as you have decent social skills, then at the least it won't be awkward next time. Edited May 19, 2016 by Imajerk17 1
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