Ashley S Posted May 19, 2016 Posted May 19, 2016 Hi, this is a new guy. I am not talking about my old boyfriend. I have been dating this guy for 4 months. Anyways, he is a trucker, and he works long hours, he is not the cheating type, so I heard from his friends and family. He doesn't seem like that type to me either because he's a relationship type of a guy, but this concerns me. He works really hard, however, he woke this morning, and said "My arms hurt, my legs hurt, and my penis hurts." I said "Your penis? If you have a sore penis that's usually caused from sex, and we haven't had sex in like two weeks." He said "No like my whole body aches." I said "Well, your penis shouldn't ache, that usually means sex, or a STD." He said "No everything is just sore." I never heard of a physical job causing a guys penis to be sore? Like I said we haven't had sex in like two weeks. I am concerned if he is cheating on me, because I always heard of a body aching from work, but his penis? That sounds strange to me, unless someone can enlighten me, and tell me that it can happen. Or he might be cheating? I need honest opinions on this. Thank you.
Toodaloo Posted May 19, 2016 Posted May 19, 2016 Being on the outside it is subject to knocks and bumps. It could be rubbing against his trousers or something. Even still he needs to go and see a doctor. Sore willies can be caused by a number of things. I sometimes get sore boobs and it has nothing to do with how much or how little sex I am having...
PegNosePete Posted May 19, 2016 Posted May 19, 2016 (edited) Being on the outside it is subject to knocks and bumps. It could be rubbing against his trousers or something. ^ Exactly. Or he's jerking off. Or not washing it properly. There's many ways it could have happened. You come across as pretty arrogant, telling him twice what it "usually means", when in fact you have no idea what it "usually means". If he were cheating I don't think he'd mention it at all TBH........ Edited May 19, 2016 by PegNosePete 8
Art_Critic Posted May 19, 2016 Posted May 19, 2016 Sounds to me that he was just being funny as it were, by saying penis he meant everything on his body hurt.. If his Mr Wiggles really did hurt then it was from him wacking off and that is what he meant, maybe he wanted to have sex last night and wacked off instead. By in large it doesn't sound like this amounts to cheating... 8
Ami1uwant Posted May 19, 2016 Posted May 19, 2016 Either he had a med8ca problem or he is getting sex elsewhere or jerk ingredients off or he is just saying I'm really sore right now..so no sex
Shining One Posted May 19, 2016 Posted May 19, 2016 I agree with Art Critic. I doubt he was being literal. With that being said, a sore penis can be caused by many different things. I'm assuming you don't have one and that you're not an expert on them. How would you feel about a man who isn't a gynecologist telling you what a sore vagina usually means?
Omei Posted May 19, 2016 Posted May 19, 2016 Tucker's have been known to be sore in the groine from prolonged hours of driving, he should see a doctor.
anika99 Posted May 19, 2016 Posted May 19, 2016 Sounds to me that he was just being funny as it were, by saying penis he meant everything on his body hurt.. If his Mr Wiggles really did hurt then it was from him wacking off and that is what he meant, maybe he wanted to have sex last night and wacked off instead. By in large it doesn't sound like this amounts to cheating... That's how I took it too. He was exaggerating to express how much he hurt all over. Like if someone says 'I'm so hungry I could eat a horse', people don't generally respond to that by saying 'oh my god, you eat horses??!! Entire horses??!!' As they know it just means I'm really really hungry. 2
GunslingerRoland Posted May 19, 2016 Posted May 19, 2016 I've been sick where my whole body has ached, not due to over usage of any particular muscles. It may be a similar feeling if he is that overworked.
Honoré9 Posted May 19, 2016 Posted May 19, 2016 I don't think he cheated, but if you keep accusing him of it he may. "She already thinks I'm doing it, might as well do it". 1
preraph Posted May 19, 2016 Posted May 19, 2016 I don't know if you're aware, but nearly all the truckstops in the US come equipped with parking lot prostitutes servicing the truckers. Still, if his whole body hurts and he's telling you about it, he needs to go see the doctor. He could have some awful infection. Don't have sex until he sees the doctor.
smackie9 Posted May 19, 2016 Posted May 19, 2016 Oh good lord guys get a sore penis from just about anything. You are over reacting. Driving for long hours is very hard on the body. That's why many get crushed disks in their back and hemorrhoids among other health issues. I say the pain is from fatigue. 1
Methodical Posted May 19, 2016 Posted May 19, 2016 Sounds like a tongue in cheek expression he used to express just how tired/sore/achy his entire body feels. I doubt he would hand deliver ammunition.
itstoni Posted May 19, 2016 Posted May 19, 2016 Doesn't sound like he's cheating. There are many many things that can make your penis sore. Truckers are known to wack it off...a lot. 95% sure this is what happened.
tayriley Posted May 19, 2016 Posted May 19, 2016 you say he isn't the cheating type, but based on one comment, you think he is cheating? if he is cheating, why would he hint at it to you? unless he is a total psychopath that wants to gaslight you, that would make NO SENSE. you are overreacting here. he was likely just being funny and you didnt get the joke. 'ugh everything hurts. my hair hurts.' i dont even think he has a medical condition on his penis. just in context with his words, it really has nothing to do with his penis. 1
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