How would you approach a girl for first time?

[BasketballLife]

I'm a male in high school to clear this out, and I've been in relationships but what I mean is approach a particular girl for the first time.

 

I've never really talked to her, we had small chat here and there and she's not exactly the shy type. She's attractive and I'm pretty sure she knows that she is. Sometimes I would give her high fives and if I pull away last second she'll yank me back and slap my hand for that high five. Anyways off track, I want to start knowing her a llittle better so I'm thinking about asking her to walk with her back to class after our period. Is this a good way to do it?

 

Also, do females appreciate confidence from a male?? I was going to her ask that and then bring up if I could walk with her. Then from there I'll start to familiarize with her and get her number.

[Cherryz]

That sound like a very sweet nice plan.

 

But the high five is cool maybe but, it looks like you could get friend zoned if you continue that. haha

 

Dont take to long to let her know that you are romantically interested in her.

[Haydn]

Well young man...

 

Walk over with a slight swagger, actually more of a saunter.. But don`t overdo it or you`ll look like a limbo dancer.

 

Give her the briefest of smiles....More of a flicker.

 

 

 

Seriously, be direct. Just ask her.

 

Good luck!

[hasaquestion]

I'm a male in high school to clear this out, and I've been in relationships but what I mean is approach a particular girl for the first time.

 

I've never really talked to her, we had small chat here and there and she's not exactly the shy type. She's attractive and I'm pretty sure she knows that she is. Sometimes I would give her high fives and if I pull away last second she'll yank me back and slap my hand for that high five. Anyways off track, I want to start knowing her a llittle better so I'm thinking about asking her to walk with her back to class after our period. Is this a good way to do it?

 

Also, do females appreciate confidence from a male?? I was going to her ask that and then bring up if I could walk with her. Then from there I'll start to familiarize with her and get her number.

 

Yes, "females" very much appreciate confidence.

 

Don't overthink going up to her and talking to her. If she knows she's hot then she's used to that. Treat her like just another person and you'll stand out.

 

If you aren't confident and that's why you're asking... fake it 'till you make it. It'll become second nature eventually. To use a hoops analogy, it's like footwork on a jumper. It'll become muscle memory if you practice and once you have it there's a lot less that can go wrong.

[BasketballLife]

Yes, "females" very much appreciate confidence.

 

Don't overthink going up to her and talking to her. If she knows she's hot then she's used to that. Treat her like just another person and you'll stand out.

 

If you aren't confident and that's why you're asking... fake it 'till you make it. It'll become second nature eventually. To use a hoops analogy, it's like footwork on a jumper. It'll become muscle memory if you practice and once you have it there's a lot less that can go wrong.

 

So I'll be like "hey can I ask you a question, do girls appreciate confidence?" And when she answers I'll ask to walk her to class

[BasketballLife]

http://www.loveshack.org/forums/romantic/dating/581677-how-would-you-approach-girl-first-time

 

*This post in relation to that*

 

 

 

 

Anyway, if you don't want to read the earlier post, basically around Tuesday I was planning start talking to this girl. But, day after day I never got a chance, we would still talk briefly in the hallway, sometimes she would ask me where I was going. (But that's not significant since we have the same class during that period and I was not where I was supposed to be). Anyway, I held it off and until another day which I was really going to do it, but then I was cock blocked (being restricted to talking to her due to friends, another guy, etc.)

Now, today I felt as if I made a big mistake, I was in a VERY sour mood and sometime during the period she asked me why I always had my stuff (I don't take my bag off) and I replied, apparently it wasn't "loud" enough and she said "speak up you're mumbling" so then I literally yelled, well more like raise my voice unnecessarily and told her to "let me be". Then I walked off, after awhile I started feeling bad so during class I happened to have her Instagram I texted her I was sorry and why I acted so. (I couldn't do it in person, mind you this was a tech class and it was usually silent so I couldn't just walk up it would'vet been very awkward). And she read my message without replying. Later, in lunch I happened to be in front of her in line and she tapped my shoulder and asked why I was grumpy. I was reluctant to tell her so I just said stuff. Then a couple seconds later she told me "you need to cheer up its Friday, I mean I'm happy today you should be too" which I just laughed off (sorta) and said yeah.

Anyway, I was planning to start getting to know her today but I simply wasn't in the mood. At the end of class, I suddenly thought "hey if I don't do it now I'd never have a chance" so I preceded to talk to her but at the last moment I lost my confidence again (dammit right?) and then I just kept telling myself to do it and then no until finally I gave up and walked to my next class.

 

Anyway, I felt like I missed a really good opportunity mind you she was alone too. Did I? Do I still have a chance, cause I'm definitely giving it a shot next week.

 

TLDR: may have missed a opportunity with a girl due to cowardice (?)

 

Thanks in advance!

 

Edit: That was last week and I heard some rumors about her which made me a bit reluctant to try to contact her. Then I'd try today again but she left early for appointment.

[Vado]

Try, but stay polite. If you don't try, the answer will allways be no. No more apologizing, you already did, to much shows weakness.

[amaysngrace]

You should put a flower on her desk.

That's romantic.