zack121 Posted June 22, 2005 Posted June 22, 2005 Yet another silly post, This forum seems to be very proactive in the NC rule, My question is this its generalized and will not affect my ex different circumstances now. But say Person A does the NC thing. Now Person B thinks ok, well NC from person A, I'll do the NC thing, and before you know it both people are doing the NC... has not anyone thought of that? (Maybe I should have searched first - sorry MODS)\ Could there not be two people out there doing this beacuse of this so called Rule that could just be plain stupid if one person broke the ice?
ConfusedInOC Posted June 22, 2005 Posted June 22, 2005 Originally posted by zack121 Yet another silly post, This forum seems to be very proactive in the NC rule, My question is this its generalized and will not affect my ex different circumstances now. But say Person A does the NC thing. Now Person B thinks ok, well NC from person A, I'll do the NC thing, and before you know it both people are doing the NC... has not anyone thought of that? (Maybe I should have searched first - sorry MODS)\ Could there not be two people out there doing this beacuse of this so called Rule that could just be plain stupid if one person broke the ice? The point of NC is for you to heal and move on. If you don't want to move on, then NC is not for you. LC might be the answer. I've always stuck to the notion that if you use NC you do it for YOU, not for them. You ARE saying a lot when you say nothing at all.
alphamale Posted June 22, 2005 Posted June 22, 2005 Originally posted by zack121 But say Person A does the NC thing. Now Person B thinks ok, well NC from person A, I'll do the NC thing, and before you know it both people are doing the NC... I believe that is the entire point of NC, ZACK121. If both are in strict NC then one of two things will happen: 1) Neither will break NC forever and everything is over, or 2) One party will eventually break NC and that is the more desperate party
westernxer Posted June 22, 2005 Posted June 22, 2005 I've done no contact with all my exes, and they did likewise. To this day I haven't heard from any of them, nor they from me. I guess that's how it's supposed to work... (didn't even know about LoveShack back then)
alphamale Posted June 22, 2005 Posted June 22, 2005 Originally posted by westernxer I guess that's how it's supposed to work... Yes, WESTERNXR.... now put up another pic of yourself cause I'm gettin sick of looking at that goofy grin
westernxer Posted June 22, 2005 Posted June 22, 2005 LOL. I'm thinking about it... getting way too many comments on it (good and bad).
whichwayisup Posted June 22, 2005 Posted June 22, 2005 Do you actually have hair underneath that hat of yours??? Come on, show us what ya got!
Lonestar Posted June 22, 2005 Posted June 22, 2005 Originally posted by whichwayisup Do you actually have hair underneath that hat of yours??? Come on, show us what ya got! I was wondering the same thing. Take off the hat.
westernxer Posted June 22, 2005 Posted June 22, 2005 Originally posted by Lonestar I was wondering the same thing. Take off the hat. I don't have any hair (chopped off what's left of it). I did have another photo posted, but that one looked too friendly, so I changed it. This one has more of a bite to it, to match my message.
greenhorn Posted June 22, 2005 Posted June 22, 2005 Originally posted by westernxer I don't have any hair (chopped off what's left of it). I did have another photo posted, but that one looked too friendly, so I changed it. This one has more of a bite to it, to match my message. Atleast put the full squatting picture as you have in the page where you cropped this avatar of yours. That will distract people's avatar from your head and cap
westernxer Posted June 22, 2005 Posted June 22, 2005 I want people to see me in their dreams instead of obsessing over my body... :} Have we totally destroyed this thread or what? Oh yeah, NC all the way.
smile95 Posted June 22, 2005 Posted June 22, 2005 as long as this thread is hijacked, how do you get a pic on here?
ConfusedInOC Posted June 22, 2005 Posted June 22, 2005 Originally posted by beth5201 as long as this thread is hijacked, how do you get a pic on here? MY PROFILE>EDIT OPTIONS>CHANGE AVATAR
blue16 Posted June 23, 2005 Posted June 23, 2005 I don't think westernxer would be the same with a different pic, it's his trademark you know?
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