Author Steelepc Posted May 29, 2016 Author Posted May 29, 2016 Time heals. The goal is to become indifferent and just not care anymore. Focus on you and what's good for you now. Allow thoughts of her to float on by without taking them seriously or to heart. It's good to recognize these things in hindsight even if you didn't see it as a red flag at the time. But this is revealing, isn't it - monogamy isn't part of her repertoire. Interesting thing happened today. The one woman who initiated chasing me, text me and said its not going to go anywhere because im not a devout to her religion (im paraphrasing) another lady i had been on 2 dates with that as of the last couple weeks (i only check in once a week) text me about 5 mins later, essentially has some man shes going to take serious and lets just be friends.. What a fk'n week lol Now I havent any idea where to start over from. I hate bars, the charity events that i used to do were mostly women out of my preferred demographic, and Im not into being a bar fly. The online route here is the worst i have ever seen. Totally lost atm One of the challenges that i have is, i havent lived here long (4 yrs) Im self employed and work from home, so you have to get creative to meet new people but right now im pretty tapped, but bored at the same time. I find it frustrating that these women all have wonderful things to go do today with their family or their friends or new man whatever the case may be, and im sitting here like a jerk trying to figure out wtf to do at 40 years old..
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