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I'm 24, female. Still a virgin(by choice).

I am still in college, a veteran and I work as an EMT.Most of my friends are married,dating , college educated or have kids. I just feel like a darn loser.

 

Growing up I have always wanted to get married, have kids and such. I just don't see that as being possible.

 

I've only had one boyfriend. Yes, he cheated on me. We only lasted 3 months. That was in 2013.

 

Here I am still single, yes I am happy, but **** lol.

Women have a biological timeline. I mean I don't wnat to rush into a relationship or anything , but I am not the norm .

 

The probablility of me getting married and having children is SLIM :(:(:(

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People are getting married later in life and that is fact.....you are in no way over the hill at 24......the fact you are a virgin by choice is a beautiful thing....dont knock it....

 

you have plenty of time to have children....you have a lot to offer a man you have to believe that....and feel it.....

 

i am 47 cant have any more kids not biologically....i have five...and i have never married....not yet.....

 

i know what i have to offer though...and one day...i even believe i will marry......i just have to know the right guy well enough to know its going to be my last relationship that lasts and he will feel the same...never give up hope.....and believe in yourself and what you bring to the table..then one day with god above.....you will meet the guy who matches what you can bring...i wish you well.....deb

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Thanks for the reply :). You sound like a sweet gal. Don't give up :)

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Thanks for the reply :). You sound like a sweet gal. Don't give up :)

 

 

I wont if you dont...;0)...thankyou for your sweet words....deb

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I am 25 and single too. Haven't had any serious relationships but it's okay honestly. I would advice you to try online dating? Or look for meetup for singles? Try going out like gym or places you can meet people. Btw I try okcupid and it was horrible but maybe tinder will be better? I hate dating and playing games :/

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Girl, you are still a young one! You have plenty of time. All good things come in their own time. I got married when I was 23 to the wrong person, so don't be in such a rush and enjoy your life:)

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I'm 24, female. Still a virgin(by choice).

I am still in college, a veteran and I work as an EMT.Most of my friends are married,dating , college educated or have kids. I just feel like a darn loser.

 

Growing up I have always wanted to get married, have kids and such. I just don't see that as being possible.

 

I've only had one boyfriend. Yes, he cheated on me. We only lasted 3 months. That was in 2013.

 

Here I am still single, yes I am happy, but **** lol.

Women have a biological timeline. I mean I don't wnat to rush into a relationship or anything , but I am not the norm .

 

The probablility of me getting married and having children is SLIM :(:(:(

 

The cheater one let go and don't think about it. He wanted something you didn't give him that's why they cheat or they just get bored. But still no excuse. They don't make good husbands or wives either. When it's your time to be happy again you'll find the right man. Don't force it let it happen. Again don't judge every guy like this prior one otherwise you'll never be happy.

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I'm 24, female. I just feel like a darn loser.

 

Because you are comparing yourself to other people you know. You think that their experience should be your experience. But we are all here to have our own experiences of life.

 

Growing up I have always wanted to get married, have kids and such. I just don't see that as being possible.

 

And yet have you ever asked yourself why you want these things? It's an answer worth knowing. ;)

 

Women have a biological timeline. I mean I don't wnat to rush into a relationship or anything..

 

With all due respect it sounds exactly like you want to rush into a relationship and everything. Women are biologically capable of having children right up until menopause (50yrs odd) and some even beyond that age. You have plenty of time. Society, not your body is telling you to hurry up but have you ever questioned the mores of society?

 

The probablility of me getting married and having children is SLIM :(:(:(

 

Maybe it is and maybe it isn't. At 24 you can hardly make a conclusion one way or the other. Maybe it hasn't happened yet because there is some self examination you need to do first?

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I agree with other posters that you still have plenty of time.

 

That being said, if finding the right guy, getting married, and having a family is important to you, then by all means, make it a priority. There is nothing wrong with following through on what matters to you. Stay open. Make sure you're social enough that you meet lots of guys. And most importantly, be patient. Don't just rush into a relationship to catch up to your friends. Take your time to find the right guy for you--someone who shares your values and life goals, and will treat you well. He's out there for sure!

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