kunaka1000 Posted May 17, 2016 Posted May 17, 2016 (edited) I have a girlfriend that is insecure because of being left by her ex during pregnancy after he promised everything to her. There was miscommunication between us which made her think otherwise and ended up in her asking for space, I tried talking to her but it didn't help. My best friend called me on Sunday and told me she was hurting and loves me and just sad now, she needs reassurance that not all guys are the same but truly loves me. I make her friend happy after a long time and should try harder but never did anything. On Monday she called at night saying she missed talking me, and we talked for a bit. She asked if I missed her and I told I did, She asked why I didn't try to call her something but it was in respect of what she asked. She understood and talked but nothing serious she said Goodnight and I told her I love her and replied just bye. I want to show her I really care because she means everything to me including her daughter but need advise on what is the best thing for me to do right now at is in the best interest of us both and our relationship, She's My World Edited May 18, 2016 by a LoveShack.org Moderator corrected text speak. still hard to understand
katiegrl Posted May 18, 2016 Posted May 18, 2016 (edited) I am a bit confused. She asked for space but then got hurt/mad/confused because you gave her the space SHE asked for? I guess she wants/needs you to chase her, even after she essentially rejects you. You could do that, or you could sit her down and ask her what the heck she wants. Tell her YOU are confused as she asked for space, you gave it to her after which she calls you and asked why you haven't called.... That is a mixed message and a bit crazy making. Be strong, be assertive. Tell her you understand she has been hurt but you are not that guy, that she is your world, and either she trusts you or she doesn't . And if she doesn't or can't, then you have no choice but to walk away. Franky she sounds like a handful so good luck with that. Perhaps that is part of the attraction though. You wouldn't be the first guy..... Whatever you do, don't let her jerk you around. Try to reassure her. But stand up for yourself and what you want too. If she has issues, she needs to fix them herself, not you. Edited May 18, 2016 by katiegrl
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