Why do girls happen to fall for Bad boys?

[rayan1]

I always see girls fall in love with bad boys, (those who have bad behaviors ). I don't see them fall for the cool guys or for those who have good manners.

[mrldii]

Personally, I blame Disney movies and "chick flicks".

[deadparrot]

I'm so glad we're starting the "Why don't the silly womenfolk see what's best for them and fall in love with a Nice Guy like me?" conversation. It's such a new and refreshing angle!

[basil67]

You guys crack me up

[basil67]

Rayan, try taking off your blinkers. You'll see a whole lot more

[Gloria25]

Why?

 

Cuz, they're so bad, but they do it so well

 

In all seriousness can you describe "bad"? I mean, you did mention "manners". So, if a guy can't eat with a fork/knife, he's off my list. Oh yeah, and if he thinks farting is cute.

Edited May 17, 2016 by Gloria25

[JustGettingBy]

Confidence.

[Gloria25]

Confidence.

 

Eh, a misconstrued view of "confidence" . IMO, bad guys are more insecure than confident, hence, why they're jerks.

[bathtub-row]

The same reason so many guys fall for the bad girls. They think they're exciting. That is, until they get stomped on a few times.

[phineas]

I always see girls fall in love with bad boys, (those who have bad behaviors ). I don't see them fall for the cool guys or for those who have good manners.

 

Because most "nice guys" are creepy, socially awkward, think all women are special snowflakes & develop feelings for them before they have actually been on a real date. They become friends with women & give them all kinds of attention when they haven't done a damn thing to earn it. This makes a man unattractive to women.

 

This is how women who fall for guys that cheat on them and tell them they arn't good enough and to lose some weight view "nice guys" at least.

 

The normal healthy women out there will go for the type of guy who doesn't get butthurt when a woman rejects him and doesn't wonder why women always go for jerks.

[Jabron1]

Alpha DNA.

[Shanex]

Bad boys get laid. (Genuine) nice guys get married.

[Saracena]

I always see girls fall in love with bad boys, (those who have bad behaviors ). I don't see them fall for the cool guys or for those who have good manners.

 

Not me, I'm afraid. For me they've absolutely no appeal whatsoever!

[Haydn]

Bad boys get laid. (Genuine) nice guys get married.

 

 

Good guys go to heaven.

 

Bad guys go everywhere.

[carhill]

I always see girls fall in love with bad boys, (those who have bad behaviors ). I don't see them fall for the cool guys or for those who have good manners.

 

 

Women fall for (are attracted to) all kinds of men. However, to the casual observer, those men with marked anti-social and/or criminal behaviors tend to stand out and be noticed more so we notice them more, as well as the women who 'fall for' them. The rest of the guys tend to blend into the background and, yeah, women are falling for them too. Otherwise, there would be a ginormous segment of the human male population, all these good guys, who'd be living their lives alone. They're not. A select few of us are, with few being the relevant term.

[Jabron1]

Eh, a misconstrued view of "confidence" . IMO, bad guys are more insecure than confident, hence, why they're jerks.

 

I completely disagree.

 

The biggest cliche advice to give in dating is 'just be yourself'. But if most guys really were 'just being themselves' they'd inevitably come across as jerks (especially in this era).

 

Intent is everything. If someone is just being a jerk for the sake of it, they won't attract women (or anyone).

 

If they're genuinely 'just being themselves' then it comes across as powerful. Because so few people have the guts to 'just be themselves' - come what may.

 

The truth is, although I won't be praised for it, that women are very much social creatures (and very clever ones at that ). They need, and follow the herd. A real man doesn't need that same acceptance. And, as Carhill has pointed out, it makes a guy stand out. 'Bad boys' typically don't give a damn about social acceptance (or much of anything). So, you get an immediate man/woman vibe.

 

'Bad boys' is ultimately subjective anyway. My mum and grandmother think I can do no wrong . Yet, I'd probably be labelled a supposed 'bad boy' by others, and probably give off that vibe.

Edited May 17, 2016 by Jabron1

[Cb1989]

Bad boys exude dominant traits such as confidence, arrogance, self-reliance (basically not giving a crap), which women find very attractive. On the other hand nice guys are needy, desperate, clingy and manipulative, thus turning a woman's private parts to the Sahara desert.

[Shanex]

Good guys go to heaven.

 

Bad guys go everywhere.

 

I'm headed to the purgatory.

[Shanex]

Women fall for (are attracted to) all kinds of men.

 

Pretty much because women are also unique individuals looking for different types of guys. Good guys, bad guys, attractiveness and intelligence, shared hobbies and passions make that there are so many factors that almost (almost) everyone can find someone in his life.

 

Please no ''40 year old virgin'' reference to prove me wrong.

[Maalik]

Don't worry. They'll be single mothers soon enough. Lol. The masculine/dominant/alpha male is so perfect. So perfect that he never actually stays around to raise his kids or marry the women he knocks up

[phineas]

Don't worry. They'll be single mothers soon enough. Lol. The masculine/dominant/alpha male is so perfect. So perfect that he never actually stays around to raise his kids or marry the women he knocks up

 

This is true.

I can sleep with these women, but I don't make enough money to "take care of them" so i'm stuck in the FWB zone.:lmao:

 

They usually end up with a guy 10+ yrs older because those are the only guys around here with:

A. A high enough salary.

B. willing to be a sugar daddy to a woman in her 40's.

 

I mean hell at 44 if I made enough to be a sugar-daddy i'd be poaching the 30 something single moms instead of the one's my age.

[Alamo657]

I always see girls fall in love with bad boys, (those who have bad behaviors ). I don't see them fall for the cool guys or for those who have good manners.

There are 3 kinds of men :

 

1) the boring guy who don't do much

2) the jerk who don't do much but has a sufficient ego not to appear a wimp

3) a real man who got his **** together

 

Women will look at 1) with pity and will date him when they are tired of 2) ; they'll date 2) in their 20 because it looks like an exciting challenge, and eventually they'll actively look for the rarest breed, 3) to settle seriously with.

 

Tough luck.

[NTV]

I always see girls fall in love with bad boys, (those who have bad behaviors ). I don't see them fall for the cool guys or for those who have good manners.

 

 

Eh, dude, stop worrying about getting laid, and you find that you get laid way more than you'd hoped. It doesn't make sense logically. Logically you want to plan to get it like a person would plan for world domination. So yeah, counterintuitive as fuc*, but it's the truth.

[Haydn]

I'm headed to the purgatory.

 

Don`t worry Shanex, i have booked us a seat at the bar. (Not too close to the band)

[preraph]

I don't even call guys "bad boys" and "nice guys. " It's bogus captioning to begin with. Something men came up with, not women. It's just name calling.