ByMyself01 Posted May 17, 2016 Posted May 17, 2016 Long story short: I tried to get revenge on my ex's baby mother for ruining our relationship and making it a living hell that I made a fake Facebook conversation between her and him that never existed and sent it to her new boyfriend and baby father of 3 years. At first, I thought it would do nothing since he didn't believe it was really her anyways but to my surprise, a week later they broke up and her new man was in a whole other relationship. Now, this week, 3 weeks after I did what I did, it seems that they are trying to patch up the relationship, however I think she has since been contemplating getting back with my ex and I will be crushed if he gets back with her. It seems I might get what I deserve because this girl is throwing hints all over Facebook and I can tell that she is considering my ex an option now that her and her boyfriend broke up. Although my ex told me that he will never accept the new child she had with her boyfriend of 3 years, I think he loves her enough to give her another shot being that they have a child together as well. And the sad part of it all is that I have a boyfriend. A boyfriend who claims he loves me very much but I don't believe it because I'm the type of person that believes in History over new people so until I have proof that he is in it for the long-run, I will never be over my ex. I just set myself up for failure. By making it seem like my ex's baby mother wanted to get back with him and now the mess might be true. And his family was all over her Facebook page giving her encouragement after her break-up with her boyfriend. It hurts that they never accepted me but they are still willing to accept her even after a new baby she had with another man. Even though it hurts, I just feel horrible about what I done. Not because it backfired but because I created a dent in a relationship I had no business doing, now I have to hope it doesn't come back on me. It's so hard to move on when people are the cause of my hurt and I see them having kids and all I wanted was a kid with my ex, wasted 3 years of my time. Now I have to wait all over again while my ex and his ex keep having more babies with people atleast they have their kids, if my new man leaves, I will still be left with nothing. Sigh
ExpatInItaly Posted May 17, 2016 Posted May 17, 2016 The heck did I just read.... Anyway. You need to break up with your boyfriend. You cannot demand he prove his trustworthiness when you are deceptive yourself. He doesn't deserve this. Let him go. Second, you need to get help. Resorting to the juvenile behaviour that you did speaks volumes - what exactly were you hoping to accomplish? Your need for "revenge" is very concerning. Third, take accountability. You say others hurt you, but what exactly do you think you are doing by creating false drama? Stop meddling in others' lives and own your mistakes. 2
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