kaisergal Posted May 16, 2016 Posted May 16, 2016 I'm not brill with reading guys but I'm mates with this guy not sure he likes me. He messaged me to see if I was out with the boys last night so he met up with us. He kept trying to touch me he touched my lips hugged me a few times etc and teases me we are both 30 but I'm pretty much one of the guys. Haven't known this guy long. He kept on taking the mick and on one occasion touched my lip as if to wipe them.
Author kaisergal Posted May 16, 2016 Author Posted May 16, 2016 He's interested and hoping you will kiss him. Do you think it's a good sign? He even made a joke of dropping a coin down my top
d0nnivain Posted May 16, 2016 Posted May 16, 2016 Unless you watch him treat other men this way, he's interested. Whether that interest is honorable remains to be seen. If you want a relationship hang tough for an actual date but do ramp up your own flirting. If you are OK with FWB, do whatever feels good.
truth_seeker Posted May 16, 2016 Posted May 16, 2016 Do you think it's a good sign? He even made a joke of dropping a coin down my top He doesn't sound like a classy guy... if you're into him, and don't mind his behavior, make a move on him. This is what he wants...
Author kaisergal Posted May 16, 2016 Author Posted May 16, 2016 He doesn't sound like a classy guy... if you're into him, and don't mind his behavior, make a move on him. This is what he wants... So it's not him just being friendly??
Author kaisergal Posted May 16, 2016 Author Posted May 16, 2016 Unless you watch him treat other men this way, he's interested. Whether that interest is honorable remains to be seen. If you want a relationship hang tough for an actual date but do ramp up your own flirting. If you are OK with FWB, do whatever feels good. What's FWB? And no lol
smackie9 Posted May 16, 2016 Posted May 16, 2016 Yes he is randy for you.....If you have no interest with this guy, tell him to shut it down.
smackie9 Posted May 16, 2016 Posted May 16, 2016 What's FWB? And no lol friends with benefits.....you are just friends but you also have casual sex.
d0nnivain Posted May 16, 2016 Posted May 16, 2016 What's FWB? And no lol FWB friends with benefits -- it's a no strings attached, no commitment, sex on demand but no exclusivity.
Author kaisergal Posted May 16, 2016 Author Posted May 16, 2016 FWB friends with benefits -- it's a no strings attached, no commitment, sex on demand but no exclusivity. We haven't had sex why do u think it's just that
preraph Posted May 16, 2016 Posted May 16, 2016 He's definitely flirting with you. I guess the question now is whether he flirts with a lot of women or if you're the woman of the week or whatever. Anyway, if you are interested in him (dropping things down your shirt at his age does sound a bit immature -- just saying) then tell him to stop acting like a ____ and ask you out.
Author kaisergal Posted May 16, 2016 Author Posted May 16, 2016 He's definitely flirting with you. I guess the question now is whether he flirts with a lot of women or if you're the woman of the week or whatever. Anyway, if you are interested in him (dropping things down your shirt at his age does sound a bit immature -- just saying) then tell him to stop acting like a ____ and ask you out. Probs is he is generally flirty but I was the only girl sat he kept teasing and trying to touch ie wiping my lips etc
deadparrot Posted May 16, 2016 Posted May 16, 2016 I agree with the consensus. He's certainly attracted to you, but whether that's a physical attraction or anything beyond that isn't clear. The dropping the coin down your shirt is pretty juvenile and I'd seriously question his maturity levels even if he were interested in a relationship. Basically, at this point everything is saying "purely physical attraction." A guy who's interested in more than fooling around would spend time talking to a girl, finding out her interests, her background, etc., rather than simply finding excuses to touch her. Until he proves differently, I'd assume he'd be down for a FWB situations but little else. 1
d0nnivain Posted May 16, 2016 Posted May 16, 2016 We haven't had sex why do u think it's just that You misunderstood. What I said was he's definitely flirting with you. He's interested. However, you can only judge his level of interest by what he does next. If he asks you on a proper date, he wants a relationship. If he does nothing more, he just wants to flirt for the fun of flirting. If he pushes for kisses or more without asking you on a date then he only wants FWB. 1
preraph Posted May 16, 2016 Posted May 16, 2016 Probs is he is generally flirty but I was the only girl sat he kept teasing and trying to touch ie wiping my lips etc Well, my experience with flirty kind of jokey guys is they do it to the ones they can get an embarrassed reaction out of the most or can fluster.
truth_seeker Posted May 17, 2016 Posted May 17, 2016 So it's not him just being friendly?? No. He likes you and is doing all of these stupid things hoping you'll be into him and it will lead to hooking up. If you like him, flip it on him: "You going to keep playing games or are you going to make a move?" This should push him to kiss you.
married777 Posted May 17, 2016 Posted May 17, 2016 guess at this point you need to be certain he really loves you or he's just flirting with you.
married777 Posted May 17, 2016 Posted May 17, 2016 guess at this point you need to be certain he really loves you or he's just flirting with you. If you like him, why don't you get to know him some more?
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