iwannaknow148 Posted May 16, 2016 Posted May 16, 2016 Ill try to keep this short. I dated a girl for over a year and we were each others first. I was one grade above her and everything was great until I moved to college, but it was only an hour away. I had started to become consumed with jealousy and it changed me and our relationships dynamic. Also I was putting a lot more into the relationship and we were relatively happy. We loved each other a lot. We had broken up once, but that only lasted 2 days because she came back saying she missed me and loved me. Two weeks later we get into a small fight and she breaks up with me out of no where. After the breakup I did beg and plead. I found out a month after we broke up she started seeing someone else immediately after we broke up, but that didn't last for more than a week. We had little contact threw a mutual friend, but I texted her once when I found out she was seeing someone else to remove all my photos from her social media because I didn't want to be associated with her. She blocked me on everything, but all her friends still keep tabs with me on snapchat. Its been two months after the breakup and I cut out every form of connection and did no contact a month ago. I feel a lot better, but I still have this empty feeling. I go out and I have fun and I talk to other girls, but college just ended and Im back home and I miss her more than ever. We meant the world to each other so I was shocked by her selfish behavior. For the most part I know I can't be in a relationship with her, but I do miss talking to her and more or less the physical side of our relationship. Im not going to her graduation even though I have friends in her grade. Any advice would be appreciated. Thanks
Gemini_jo Posted May 16, 2016 Posted May 16, 2016 The first love breakup cuts the deepest. I think you're really taking the right steps to better yourself. Those feelings for her will be there for a long time. Her selfish behavior is not surprising to me given the fact that she is your ex. EX. EX. EX. I really can't say ex enough. When someone is your ex, they become a different person immediately. Just keep on keeping on man, you're doing good but keep staying away from her or you will just make it harder on yourself.
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