bebegal Posted June 22, 2005 Posted June 22, 2005 hey! havent been here in a while as things have been going smoothly with my new man. anyway after 2 months --we work together in the same office--he asks if I ever dated anyone there. I have dated a couple but I chose to only tell him about the more serious ones. This is the tyype of guy who is into work not play and has only dated a few people. Over dinner with a bunch of friends --a friend mentioned how she remembers me dating this guy who works with us--(one I failed to mention to him I dated) Then this weekend we go to a party and I run into this guy who I had dated as well and who makes a big deal when I see him--(he is like hey how have you been) and of course my boyfriend is curious and asks how we know each other. Well then at work my friend is telling me this guy is hot and to find out if he is single. so of course after talking this guy gives me his number and says there is a party at his house in a couple of wks--however i threw the number out. I was scared my boyfriend would find out so I told him about this but i also told him i threw it out. SO this is a lot in little amount of time. I am concerned as to what he thinks. i want him to think he is special etc but how will he if he finds out I dated half of the world it seems and men keep giving me there number. I think he is upset about this. SO i have been trying to butter him kind of by telling him very frequ how handsome i think he is and how everyone at work loves him and thinks he is great guy. WE have been together 2 months. I am so crazy about him and do not want to lose him. I know number stop talking to guys and about guys. What else can I do as I scared he is getting the wrong idea about me. I let him know I was not sexually active with any of these men. PLease help and let me know what to do and if you think itll be ok. He wants a classy girl and I knwo a classy girl does not date the entire world.
Nuala Posted June 22, 2005 Posted June 22, 2005 if he is really into you your past wont matter. We all have a past, that is what makes us.
Author bebegal Posted June 22, 2005 Author Posted June 22, 2005 oh I really hope so, thanks for replying. shoudl I talk to him about it and explain once again that it is my past I feel like I need to address it or something
Nuala Posted June 22, 2005 Posted June 22, 2005 Well if he seems jealous, then set it straight, but dont bring it up. Just make sure you focus on him and show him your into him. Guys love attention and love to be the center! ya know!
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