What Am I To Tell Her?

[rayan1]

There's this girl i met online(on fb actually),

we've been chating for like a week plus now and this have been going smoothly.Last night, i asked her to tell me about herself and she asked why did i wanna know about her? I really like this girl, i mean i'm falling in love with her.So i think this is the defining point, where i either get out of the friend-zone or remain locked in that penetentiary..

Please what am to say?

[Audacious]

Dude ,

 

you fell in love with someone you met online ? like you did not meet her in real life ? ....

[CarrieT]

i asked her to tell me about herself and she asked why did i wanna know about her? I really like this girl, i mean i'm falling in love with her. So i think this is the defining point, where i either get out of the friend-zone or remain locked in that penetentiary..

Please what am to say?

Chuck that the idea that you are falling in love with HER out of your head immediately.

 

You are infatuated and in love with the IDEA of who you think she might be. Because you even admitted that you are asking about her so that implies you Do Not Know Her.

 

You haven't met her so she is not real. You can't be friend zoned when you aren't even friends and don't know each other. Which means you can't be falling in love because what you are experiencing is wholly and entirely 100% fantasy and not reality.

 

Instead of asking her to tell you about herself, do whatever you can to ask her on a proper date and get to know her IN REAL LIFE. From there, you can determine if there is a friend zone or the chance for a real romance....