barbossa Posted May 15, 2016 Posted May 15, 2016 I am interested in finding a relationship that leads to marriage if possible so I would prefer us to have the same goals as wanting to date to eventually marry Don't want my time to be needlessly wasted I am most attracted to younger females I find myself most attracted to college age girls, simply because in my view they are at their peak physically and most fun, open minded and less jaded But as time goes by i find myself less able to relate with such young girls, we grew up in different eras have different desires ( I am over my party days for example)and my college days are behind me I have dated older girls That being said I have also dated women my senior by a range of 10 years older and found some of them to be too moody to date, too jaded, or just have expectations that are just too hard to satisfy ( I felt punished or over scrutinized due to past emotional baggages and unresolved issues) I have read here and elsewhere of people getting married to early in their lives only for them to get divorced quickly as well ( While i can never know how the marriage will go at any age I would like to make sure i did my due diligence) If girls mature faster than boys what is my best age range to target for marriage?
Stella07 Posted May 15, 2016 Posted May 15, 2016 I would say that a women 24 years old or older will be at the age where she would be dating with marriage in mind.
TaraMaiden2 Posted May 15, 2016 Posted May 15, 2016 25 - 30. That's the bracket who may also be seeking to have children. However, understand that "Sisters are doin' it for themselves". That is to say, many women enjoy an independent lifestyle, with the liberty to live their lives unconstrained by the rigours and requirements of linking themselves legally to a man for an indeterminate number of years. The little 'stay-at-home-and-have-kids' woman, is becoming something of a rarity - unless you might find her in a European country, or maybe in a culture where that is more the norm than the exception. Of course, seeking a spouse that way, carries its own hazards....
preraph Posted May 15, 2016 Posted May 15, 2016 Your best bet is to find a woman at or near your own age because 30 and up is the better age for a successful marriage. You should be up front online or wherever that you are looking for a serious relationship, not just for hooking up, and see yourself getting married in the next 5 years. College girls will see you as an old man. Give up on that. They are not marriage material anyway. Everyone has baggage. You obviously have a lot of baggage, so stop punishing women for having dated before and learned a little something from it. 1
Woggle Posted May 15, 2016 Posted May 15, 2016 Just build up and live your own life then you should meet a good woman along the way. Be a high quality man and you should meet a high quality woman. Also it is never your obligation to be the whipping boy for other men's sins.
LostOnes05 Posted May 15, 2016 Posted May 15, 2016 I would say that a women 24 years old or older will be at the age where she would be dating with marriage in mind. I've found that it's around 30+ that women become more serious about relationships. Most of the women I've met have fallen into different categories during their 20s... 1. Focused on advancing their education and career 2. Single but serial daters 3. In and out of relationships including going back and forth to exes 4. Single and no relationships whatsoever 5. Single and promiscuous 6. Relationship but not looking long term 7. Got pregnant and stayed with the guy (not married) 8. Got pregnant and became a single parent 9. Got married and divorced early 10. Married early and still married (with children)
Jabron1 Posted May 15, 2016 Posted May 15, 2016 If girls mature faster than boys what is my best age range to target for marriage? We all know by now how a girl's age changes the way she behaves. I won't go there again. Instead, I'll make a more important point. Where serious relationships are concerned, you should be filtering hard for HIGH INTEREST. The truth is that many guys (I include myself in this ) fool around with women who's interest isn't where it should be. This is good for a laugh, but it isn't what you want if you are considering something as serious as marriage. People say 'go for a girl that is 30 and keen on settling'. Well yeah, that'll work. But, is it you she wants, or is it marriage and kids? What is the priority? What kind of marriage will that be for you in the longterm? Remember, as the man, all the risk falls on you. It is very possible to find an attractive woman in her 30s that wants to marry you, but is low interest. In fact, it seems to be increasingly normal, and I see it often. I read something that was very good on this subject once, and I'll send it to you via PM. It's like 60 pages long lol. But my point is that age is nowhere near as important as interest. 1
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