He meant the world to me.

[Broken923]

We were together for a year, started out as friends and it grew from there. I had been hurt so bad in a past relationship that I wasn't looking for another one. I was content with just sex and at the beginning so was he. We fell in love and it was deep a connection like never before. He was amazing in so many ways but in others he was selfish. Our relationship wasn't perfect but we always work it out. He was my best friend. He promised he would never hurt me or never just walk away. But he did.

It's been 2 months since I've heard a word from him he just woke up one day and decide he didn't want to be with me anymore. No explanation no nothing just an email that said he'd always love me.

I'm having the hardest time getting over this it eats me up inside because there is really no closure. He just went ghost on me. I have had NC with him and I'm losing my mind. I miss him so much but I know he doesn't miss me.

[Leesherloo]

I'm so sorry that this happened to you. I know exactly what it feels like to be "ghosted". Actually one of the most painful things that has EVER happened to me. I was talking to a guy for a long time, everyday, all day... Spent a lot of time with him. And then one day, no response. No reply. Nothing.

 

It seems like you're a person who knows what they deserve. As do I. It really hurts like hell- but you'll move on from it. Have hope that there is a light at the end of the tunnel. We may not ever find the answer to WHY people hurt us and do this to us, we can only accept the situation and deal with the pain that comes with it. You don't want someone who can just disappear and reappear, those kinds of people have no connection to reality. They don't have hearts. They are cowards and immature. You deserve a guy who will give you full attention, treat you like gold and be a bestfriend to you. That wasn't him. Be patient and you will find your perfect man.

[Broken923]

Thank You!

I know one day it will get easier. It just sucks because for the last year 1/2 he was my best friend and now I'm alone without him. I'm just glad I kept my rule of not letting him meet my kids. I told him after we've been together for at least a year and we know this is what we want then you can meet them. He didn't want to wait but why bring someone around when their not going to stay. I'm glad the only thing they knew about him was he made me smile.

[Satu]

You have some grieving to do, but you'll be ok.

 

Cry any tears you need to cry, and feel and express your feelings.

 

Nature and your own innate wisdom will take care of your healing.

 

Keep posting.

 

 

Take care.

[lalalandman]

Don't worry, you'll be fine. In the future, don't put much stock into promises like 'I will never hurt you' or 'I will never leave you'. Ideally, love requires that you do hurt someone, at some point, whether intentionally or not.