SunnySG Posted June 22, 2005 Posted June 22, 2005 I have never cheated on my husband. However, we are going through a very "rough" patch because of the following: There is a certain someone I can't get out of my head and it's making me crazy. I lay in bed at night fantasizing about this person whom I have run into 4 times in a period of one year - you'll agree this isn't excessive. Then WHY can't I stop thinking about this person? This man and I saw each other 2 consecutive nights this past weekend at a public event in town. The sparks flew like crazy and I let him walk me to my car both nights. Nothing happend physical happend, although I will admit our foreheads touched as we stood there doing nothing but... breathing each other in. This act in a way was much more dangerous than kissing or sex. My pulse raced for a few hours after I returned home. You might be asking yourself, "Where was your husband?" He was at the family lake house, where he had been for about 3 or 4 consecutive weekends, leaving me home alone. These longings are making me crazy, and I admit I have started to treat my husband crappy. Before this man and I had contact, I had asked my husband for a seperation. But now I don't know if I want one because I don't love my hubby or if it's because I want to go jump in the sack with some other guy I am lusting after. Why is this happening? What the hell do I do?
Mr Spock Posted June 22, 2005 Posted June 22, 2005 If you don't think you can work out your issues with your husband get a seperation. Before you cheat. Then when your divorce is in the works if not finalized may you think about doing someone else. Well, you can think it you just can't DO it.
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