Kkw99 Posted May 14, 2016 Posted May 14, 2016 Hi all! A year ago (tomorrow actually will be exactly one year) I posted about how my then-boyfriend suddenly broke up with me and ultimately "ghosted" me. He and I had been good friends but he changed a lot when we got together and ignored me for a few days and then messaged me breaking it off and never talked to me again... We used to work together and he had moved right after we broke up (he had been planning to). I found out the other day that he had come back to our old workplace (he has done this before many times) but this time he was asking where I was...he knows I still work there though. I'm confused by why he would ask about me. He has visited before and never asked about me. It's not even like he would want a hook up because he is asexual... I'm very happy in my "new" relationship and I'm sure he knows I am with someone else now because we have mutual friends that would of told him, plus he likes all my boyfriends photos on Facebook and has him on snapchat so I imagine he would of seen us together. I truly don't want him back in my life, I'm very very happy with my new boyfriend but it's been on my mind as why he would bother asking me about me when he made it so clear he wanted absolutely nothing to do with me before... Deleting me off every form of social media and even one time we saw each other in public he ignored me completely, but kept looking at me. It's not a huge deal, just confusing because I had reached out to him a few times when he first left me and if he wanted to see me he could have casually mentioned it to my mutual friends without it being weird. I usually am invited anyway so it wouldn't of been off. Any reasons you ladies and gentlemen can think of? Just curiousity? He isn't really the type to look back on past relationships either, it's just really out of character for him to do this. He's pretty "I don't care about anyone or anything".
smudge21 Posted May 14, 2016 Posted May 14, 2016 Why even let it concern you if you truly are happy now? This guy left and ghosted on you, showed little respect and walked away without a care for you. Why waste anymore of your life thinking about him? His reasons for doing something mean nothing to you and it doesn't matter why he's doing all this. I worry though that you do still feel something for him, hence the concerns now. Just don't throw your happy present away for your sad past.
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