Bri101 Posted May 14, 2016 Posted May 14, 2016 So my ex broke up with me in July 2015 after almost 4 years of being together to be with someone else. There has been zero contact and I hadn't even seen him around since. Well, just the other day I had received a text from him asking how I've been. A part of me really wanted to respond to see what he had to say or why he was texting me but I decided to ignore it completely. Why after so long do you think he would send a text? I know I shouldn't wonder or care after what he did to me,but I am a little curious.
Zahara Posted May 14, 2016 Posted May 14, 2016 When you say left you for someone else -- was he cheating? He's likely back because his relationship may not be working out. Or he's bored and looking for attention. Best to stay NC.
Marco Valerio Posted May 14, 2016 Posted May 14, 2016 To test the waters. Maybe to seek a friendship or who knows why... You did the right thing by not answering him
Author Bri101 Posted May 14, 2016 Author Posted May 14, 2016 It was really hard not to respond. Even after all this time, I still think about him all the time. it took so long to get over what he had done so I know it was the right thing to do by not responding. I am just worried that if he should reach out again i will want to respond out of curiosity.
Zahara Posted May 14, 2016 Posted May 14, 2016 It was really hard not to respond. Even after all this time, I still think about him all the time. it took so long to get over what he had done so I know it was the right thing to do by not responding. I am just worried that if he should reach out again i will want to respond out of curiosity. Then block him. Was he seeing another woman behind your back?
Simon Phoenix Posted May 14, 2016 Posted May 14, 2016 It was really hard not to respond. Even after all this time, I still think about him all the time. it took so long to get over what he had done so I know it was the right thing to do by not responding. I am just worried that if he should reach out again i will want to respond out of curiosity. Block him so he can't reach out like that again. Simple solution.
Author Bri101 Posted May 14, 2016 Author Posted May 14, 2016 I can only assume that he was cheating on me with her. Everything was great I had no idea anything was wrong. Couple days after the breakup he was with another girl,so yes it's pretty obvious he was probably cheating
Zahara Posted May 14, 2016 Posted May 14, 2016 I can only assume that he was cheating on me with her. Everything was great I had no idea anything was wrong. Couple days after the breakup he was with another girl,so yes it's pretty obvious he was probably cheating Even more reason to block him. There need not be any curiosity as to why he's contacting you.
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