joseb Posted May 17, 2016 Posted May 17, 2016 She's not telling you flat out she has not interest because she has some interest, just very very little. She enjoys the validation of you chasing her. And she probably likes having a text buddy while she is bored Her excuses sound like BS to me by the way. Dead phone, etc, happens but rarely. More likely she is with option 1 or 2 or hoping to be. You are placing far too much value on this based on some online pics. I'm never attracted to an image. Who knows if it's even accurate or real So consider her gone. If you get on with things and move on, who knows, she might come back.
Author Grey40 Posted May 17, 2016 Author Posted May 17, 2016 She's not telling you flat out she has not interest because she has some interest, just very very little. She enjoys the validation of you chasing her. And she probably likes having a text buddy while she is bored Her excuses sound like BS to me by the way. Dead phone, etc, happens but rarely. More likely she is with option 1 or 2 or hoping to be. You are placing far too much value on this based on some online pics. I'm never attracted to an image. Who knows if it's even accurate or real So consider her gone. If you get on with things and move on, who knows, she might come back. Thanks for that advice. You're totally right. I knew that the whole time, I got that vibe pretty much right away when she didn't message me the first day and bailed out last minute. I just wanted to bull**** myself. I think you hit it spot on. She has enough interest to keep me on the back burner, but I'm not her first option, or maybe she decided she doesn't want to jump into anything too quickly.
PogoStick Posted May 17, 2016 Posted May 17, 2016 First, don't put in more effort than the girl. If you're doing the chasing and getting the run around then STOP. Cut your losses and find someone worth your time and energy. This is why I insist on CALLING and TALKING. Texting is noncommittal and girls find it easy to blow off someone they have never spoken to. Communication via text is so limited and lacking. Feel free to say texting is the way of youth but then you should happily accept the flakiness. I don't consider a date is actually set until we talk. If she won't pick up her phone for 5 minutes to set a date then we're not meeting.
scorpiogirl Posted May 17, 2016 Posted May 17, 2016 If this was some average plain Jane in her pictures, this thread wouldn't even exist. She's not interested
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