alwaysatadconfused Posted May 14, 2016 Posted May 14, 2016 My ex boyfriend and I broke up a month and a half ago. I broke it off, but I just wanted a break. My parents are in the middle of a messy divorce and I felt like I wasn't bringing as much as I could to the table as a girlfriend, so I said I wanted a little while, even if it's just a few days, where we aren't a romantic couple. About an hour after this conversation I'm being shown pictures of him holding hands with another while he was on vacation in Spain, while we were together. He and I talked about it and the conversation didn't end well; we haven't spoken since. I see him everyday because he's in one of my classes and we have lots of mutual friends. I miss him a lot. I miss us a lot. I still love him, even now. I just don't know if I can fix it now, or if the damage is irreparable.
smackie9 Posted May 14, 2016 Posted May 14, 2016 So sorry you are going through a stressful time. You can be 10 or 50, seeing your parents divorce is tragic and it affects you deeply. Even tho you had to back off from the relationship, your ex wasn't much of a BF if he was already with someone on vac cay while you two were still together. It's not your mistake, or your fault. IMO your BF didn't give your the support you should have received. He failed YOU. You can't fix anything, he had pretty much abandoned you, and there isn't anything with him worth salvaging. You deserve so much better than him I get you are feeling alone, but I think you would do better turning to a GF for support to get you through the tough times that are ahead. 2
Dis Posted May 14, 2016 Posted May 14, 2016 So sorry you are going through a stressful time. You can be 10 or 50, seeing your parents divorce is tragic and it affects you deeply. Even tho you had to back off from the relationship, your ex wasn't much of a BF if he was already with someone on vac cay while you two were still together. It's not your mistake, or your fault. IMO your BF didn't give your the support you should have received. He failed YOU. You can't fix anything, he had pretty much abandoned you, and there isn't anything with him worth salvaging. You deserve so much better than him I get you are feeling alone, but I think you would do better turning to a GF for support to get you through the tough times that are ahead. Well said. Hun, dont go back to this guy and dont hold out hope that he'll change his mind. He screwed you over....why would you want to go back to someone like that??? Its ok to miss the person you were with...thats 100% normal. Give yourself some time to heal. You are worthy of someone that will love you and support you not someone like your ex. Take care of yourself now, take comfort in friends...try to stay busy. Your ex is not capable of giving you anything that is worth having. Keep your chin up, down the road you'll meet an amazing guy who will make your ex look like a loser...believe that!! 1
Porter56 Posted May 14, 2016 Posted May 14, 2016 He's with another girl while you're going through a tough time? I'm sorry but there's nothing about this guy you should miss. Why are you worried about being a good gf right now? He should have been a good bf. Bottom line is this guy sucks. Forget him. You sound really young and at that age guys are immature and stupid and want one thing. Move on. Sorry I'm so blunt but I do feel for you. My parents went through an awful divorce too. It gets better I promise. 1
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