seyah92 Posted May 13, 2016 Posted May 13, 2016 I gave this girl everything i had and i treated her the way i was raised to treat a woman. She never wanted for anything and we made a good team and were good business partners too. She helped me get control over my family issues and i helped her reach her dream of attending college. Although when she reached her goal, her personality shifted (or maybe her true colors finally broke through). She became more needy, more depressed and her eyes began to wander. It only took two weeks, TWO WEEKS for her to sleep with another "man". A "man" that begs her for money, gives her a disease, cheats, and doesnt even share the same goals/interests. Yet she decides hes better than me and that my love wasnt genuine because in her mind i ran the risk of leaving her. Now 3 months of NC i still dont underdtand why you gave up on someone you "loved" and why do you constantly want set aside my feelings and be one of the girls while you still snuggle up in his bed. I wonder if this situation arose from her lack of empathy and the concept of actual "love" or if its from my own failure of being a "man" and letting her get so close to me?
d0nnivain Posted May 14, 2016 Posted May 14, 2016 I'm sorry you are hurting. It does sound like you were a good BF. She was the one who was wrong. But now that you know she is a cheater, it's time to let her go. When you do, you will find another to date & that person will hopefully be more appreciative. Do Find a healthy woman, not a wounded bird you have to nurse back to health. Those tend to fly away once they are strong enough. They don't stay out of appreciation. 1
SixxChick Posted May 14, 2016 Posted May 14, 2016 Do not search for logic where logic does not exist. 1
Marco Valerio Posted May 14, 2016 Posted May 14, 2016 You know what they say...Don't throw pearls to the pigs. Sometimes people don't appreciate the good they have, they are not that smart. 1
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