seyah92 Posted May 13, 2016 Posted May 13, 2016 Ive posted on here fecently talking about my ex girlfriend who cheated on with me with another guy. Ive initiated no contact two months ago but i she still tries to contanct chronically, even though shes dating the other guy. Im not sure if its because he mistreats (ie: gave her chlamydia) and she keeps going back or if shes is trying to give herself validation by trying to be my friend. The weirdest thing is that she'll send messages saying "im glad i ****ed another guy" and "youre the worst thing that ever happened to me" but then turns around and says "ill never stop contacting you" and "i miss you so much, youre a unique person". How is it that a girl can try so hard to me to be their "friend" but easily threw away a relationship with a person she "loved" for a guy who "is only good for sex"? Even though ive blocked her i can still view all of these messages and shes starting to write letters as well. I sometimes think this goes beyond the regular break up guilt reconciliation process. Hell, there was a point in time where i wouldve even considered taking her back if zhe had just apologized and cut ties with the guy. But she never have/will apologized because i was supposedly turning her into something that she's not when i was helping her with her college work and taking her out. Sorry to ramble, i just would like some insight into why she's,doing this and does she even really care? Thank you for your time
CupCakess Posted May 13, 2016 Posted May 13, 2016 She wants attention. People don't like to give away their toys, even after they are done playing with them. Ignore her!
LostOnes05 Posted May 13, 2016 Posted May 13, 2016 Sounds exactly like a woman I was seeing. Long story short, I'm certain she cheated as well. But no contact has helped tremendously. Don't let someone mistreat you and then kiss their butt too. She lost her chance when she cheated and left the relationship. All she is doing is keeping your emotional attachment high. So when she is done with the other guy she can claim she needed to experience what life was like without you to know she really wanted you (lol). She already knows you'd probably take her back after she cheated. Don't do it...ever!! You'll never trust her again and will second guess everything pertaining to the relationship's revival. 1
Giggles666 Posted May 14, 2016 Posted May 14, 2016 Run as far and as fast as you can, and never look back.... It's just heartache and dysfunction in a nice messy package IMO.
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