Mikau Posted May 13, 2016 Posted May 13, 2016 Dear LS, I recently moved into this appartment building, the neighbour across the hall moved in at a similar time. We've been running into eachother a couple of times (mainly because I keep having to sign for packages for her, three times already). We've had some light conversation but nothing substantial. I like her and want to ask her out, but there's no telling if and when I'll run into her again. She has given me nothing substantial to assume she's attracted rather than just being nice (apart from seeming disappointed I wasn't going to attend a flat party she was going to). Would just knocking on her door somewhere next week and asking her be too much? Do I have to hope she's not home the next time a package is delivered for her? Thanks
preraph Posted May 13, 2016 Posted May 13, 2016 Do you cook at all? You might bake some muffins or even buy something that you'll never eat all of and knock on her door and tell her, Hi, I baked (bought) these and will never eat them all myself, so thought I'd share them with you. See if she becomes friendlier or just acts weirded out. I think you're going to have to wait a while just to see what she's up to, if she has a BF already, etc.
Cinnamonstix Posted May 13, 2016 Posted May 13, 2016 Don't knock on the door. Not only can it feel invasive, you'll be putting her on the spot. Either wait till you run into her again and lead into asking her out naturally, or leave her a note with a message asking her out with your number on it and slip it under her door. Keep it light and cute/funny. 1
smackie9 Posted May 13, 2016 Posted May 13, 2016 omg don't do a note.....that's got creep factor all over it. That kind of thing only works in the movies. 1
Methodical Posted May 13, 2016 Posted May 13, 2016 Be careful getting involved with a neighbor. If it doesn't work out, things can quickly get super awkward. 2
Erik30 Posted May 13, 2016 Posted May 13, 2016 Don't knock on her door. I think someone who actually was in a similar situation also created a thread on here a while ago, only there the op was the girl who was asked out by one of her neighbours. I remember it was really awkward for her because she wasn't interested, but he kept showing up at her door, and she was also worried about running into him whenever she had to leave the house. So don't be like that guy... I think you should probably wait for the next party, or another package you have to sign for her.
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