Orion39 Posted May 15, 2016 Posted May 15, 2016 I can understand how that would make you start to second guess things or make you feel less than wanted. The best thing to do is have a conversation with her about it, let her know how it makes you feel. Sorry that you are going through such a difficult time, hopefully with some understanding (from both parties) and time things will improve. Long distance relationships are tricky, more so than non-long distance relationships. Do your best to be understanding, but be honest.
Author kxb1 Posted May 15, 2016 Author Posted May 15, 2016 Update: This morning before goin ice skating with her, she deleted a pic with me and one of my other comments, so I had 1 comment left on her wall and "my boyfriend is wonderful" in 2 posts were deleted too...at this point I thought to myself, I'm not about to spend at least $100 on todays date and just not show up, ignore her messages etc. I decided to go see her anyway, she looked bored/tired (probably after studying all night)...after lunch we went ice skating, she was all over me...had a great time, her first time ice skating. At night I went to see my family for dinner, she tagged me in about 12 pics for the first time...and thanked me for all the gifts etc. So all this was surprising to me, maybe she was serious about not wanting her family seeing her in a relationship. Either way this has been very weird to me, I doubt this has happened to any of you reading this. What I learned is to not care about social media at all, maybe keep an eye on what the girlfriend likes/comments from time to time because nowadays people have the option to cheat anytime via cell phone. Just gotta trust and focus on real life I guess, Thank you again for all the advice, without this thread i would've confronted her the day I made this thread and probably ended our relationship.
Art_Critic Posted May 15, 2016 Posted May 15, 2016 Just defriend her on FB and go out with her..date her and drop the FB stuff.. it is going to kill you, if she asks about it then just tell her that all the FB drama is something that you won't put up with.. 1
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