just_some_guy Posted May 13, 2016 Posted May 13, 2016 I need to end a relationship of nearly 5 years. We don't live together, but have been engaged for much of that time. She's good lady, but there are some very significant compatibility issues, especially sexually. There's other stuff, views on finance, other little interpersonal stuff. But beyond it all, we're not growing nor working on becoming a married couple. I tried to have the conversation and I got through most of it. But it is just so hard to bring it to a conclusion - that I'm ready to let go and start dating again. She spent the next day crying, had an emergency session with her therapist. What do I do?
d0nnivain Posted May 13, 2016 Posted May 13, 2016 You stay the course. If you know this marriage won't work because of the sexual incompatibility issues, it's better that you end the engagement rather then marry only to divorce. Yes, it's awful that she is hurting but she has a therapist. Image how much worse it would be if you had kids & were ripping this apart later. 1
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